ok im going to describe this.. I have a girlfriend who i love very much.. We have amazing sex and I am extremely attracted to her... i stay hard around her! and women Period. I love women, there bodies... Licking their pussys and making them cum. I can never get Blow jobs tho.. and i love Bj's so i posted an add online looking for a regular dick sucker... and 100 guys answered. they were sending me pics. and i noticed I was turned on by cocks. only really nice apealing the the eye cocks. if they are not a certain how they gross me out.. most of them gross me out. i put it off and put it off then i figured who would know how to suck a dick better than a guy?? i could write a book on doing it and i have never even done it... so i let a guy suck me off.. and it was just what i thought it would be... I let him do it one time after that as well... right now Another guy sucks my dick whenever i want.. best BJ i ever had... amazing... I somtimes play with his cock. thats as far as i even want to go.. the thaught of kissing a dude grosses me out.. and sucking him. gross, and fucking and getting fucked grosses me out.. So is this nomal in anyway?
Yeah, liking to have your cock sucked is totally normal. And not minding if it's a guy is quite common for straight guys. Being grossed out by topping a guy... Do you not like the idea of anal with a girl either? Having some interest in other peoples' dicks is curious... while finding acts with a man that don't directly go to your orgasm "gross"... This makes me wonder if you might possibly be somewhat bisexual and are struggling with learned hang-ups about it. I personally don't understand how anyone with a cock could find cocks gross naturally. It's probably because you've been taught something that makes you feel like you should be grossed out. I don't see why anyone should think a cock is any grosser than... a hand. Or a knee. Kissing a guy is gross? I mean, if he's dirty or ugly, or something, that's one thing. But if he's clean and attractive? Having no attraction to it can be natural and normal, but having an aversion probably is a learned behavior. Having more to do with how you'd feel about yourself for doing it than the act itself.
Look, I agree with AvatarMN here. Besides, no one is really getting hurt. So, enjoy it, and do not worry about what anyone may consider 'normal' or not. It's your life, and you are calling the shots. The rest is really immaterial... KD
is your girlfriend aware that you are getting blowjobs from some guy? if i was your girl i would be pissed wheather it was a boy or a girl givving it to you... however.. im really good at giving head and find that i dont get enough... so i think i can understand... also.. im totally straight... but ive fantasized about women before... the thought of a girl eating me out kinda turns me on... it just seems so naughty..
Sounds like you are picky lol. I thought it was weird to kiss a guy at first, but then it became a beautiful thing to me, and now I only enjoy making out with men. I find your story a little weird because most men would rather make out with a guy over playing with his dick. They would find that really gross. I wouldn't worry too much on the "bi" thing. You like what you like and that is that. I don't understand how something so simple could gross someone out... eating shit would gross me out but making out? You sound uptight. This is what I wrote at first, but avatar just got all my thoughts down perfectly. I don't understand how a guy could ever be grossed out by dicks??? I mean I love my penis and I think most men do too. And the kissing part was a slap in the face because it's just kissing. Boys get in their heads that it's gross (kind of like a lot of girls with small stuff) to whatever your peers tell you is gross. I was reading this thing on how boogers help you fight diseases, I thought to myself, and I found it gross at first, but then I thought it wasn't so bad. I still have not tried it but I think I will later on. And I hope none of you are quick to judge! It's HEALTHY to eat them. I would basically do any of what you said before I ate a booger. Anyways, thanks avatar, you helped stop my head from spinning these ideas. I can't help to feel like you guys will think I'm a freak now. XD
You are not bi. You are just male. If you girlfriend gave you a blowjob more often would you be asking for them from men really?
And I'm asking you something. You keep replying, but not answering. You're doing a very bad job of not being mysterious.
