Urrrgggg!!

As long as he's not looking at some gruesome stuff (sex with animals, necrophilia and such) and not spending all his free time without you looking at it, I don't think you should worry. Looking at porn once in a while is OK, compulsive porno consommation is a sign of mental disorder. The only thing you should worry about are the viruses you may catch. He should have the decency to use his own computer at least.

 

yeah i brought it up to him...he wont be doing it again.

 

I feel for ya Katie! My twin uses my old laptop, which has many of my pictures still on it. Thankfully, everything is password protected. He signs in on his own screen name, etc. I have a laptop I'm on in here that I've owned for only two weeks. Nobody has even touched it.

 

I found out my ex was viewing porn...specifically "cindy likes it in the ass".
So when we were sitting down I asked him all casually "so HOW does cindy like it in the ass?" He acted like he had no clue what I was talking about.....B.S.! He knew. I left his crackhead ass behind a long time ago. haha.

 

Perhaps this 'Cindy' really does like it in the ass. How are we to know?

 

Nobody reads the tittle of a porn, who cares what its called. You are there to watch it and relax. He probably legitimately had no clue what you were talking about when you first asked that question. Although I can believe he would hide something from you if you are going to start a dialog like that. I would of just said "rough" and smiled at a ridiculous question like that.

 

ouch... my bf says he masturbates 7 times a day, well I give him head almost everyday, should I care? whatever floats his boat.... and it is kind of hot

 

Seven times a day? Wow.

 

Personally, I think that is funny and great that you said that, whatever others think. You're probably better off anyway.

 

^i agree lol

 

And they say men have no communication skills.

 

Not all guys would be so offended by that approach

 

I would not be offended at all at such a question. You can read above at what my answer would be. I'm just surprised that she would rather create room for an argument then a conversation.

Now I can completely see that as funny if it came out lightheartedly, but judging by her post, her question didn't have comedic intentions.

 

haha! I'm sure she must......that's good for him cause I didn't. ha

 

Yeah I wish he would've said something to that effect. Thats why I brought it up. I don't give a shit. he's a grown man and can do what he wants and if I dont like it I can go. Which I did.
And the question DID come out totally in a joking manner. I was smiling the whole time. I don't care to argue over something.....or anything really. I just wanted him to fess up to lying because HE told me he never looks at porn. I don't care if he does, I don't have to stick around if I dont like it. I was just trying to (and in a very casual and loose manner) let him know that I know he LIED which was my concern.

 

Thanks. The whole REASON for my saying that was cause he knew I wasn't into him looking at porn. That's MY preference. And he said he didn't look at porn to which I found out was lie. Some girls dont care if their men look at porn on the net...but I do and I would never try to stop them from looking. They know first hand out how I feel and they can do what they want. Then I either take it or leave it. but thanks haha

 

Just a funny thought, imagine if it wasn't your ex who actually looked it up? maybe some one else did?

 

ha...that would be funny but he lived alone. And I Knew he had this "
take it in the ass" fetish. I would have LOVED for him to just tell me exactly how cindy got it in the ass. I would have laughed my ass off but he chose to act like he didn't know what I was talking about. Its funny too, cause one night we were on x pills and I suggested ordering a porn flick and he said "No cause I know you really don't like that". I was serious tho. He was just a liar which is a deal breaker.

 

Yeah, no judgement, i couldn't really care less you broke up with him for being a liar (honesty is an important part of relationships, i agree). I just thought that would be a funny situation if he didnt look it up

 

it totally would be. The only other person that had access to his computer was his 8 year old son. a bit disturbing but he did take after his dad so........haha