If I were you, I would be pissed. It's really possible that nothing is going on between them, but it still seems very strange to me that he wanted you to leave your house so that he could have a girl over. And even if it really is not a romantic thing with them, he definitely should have just told you what's up. Talk to him, figure out what is going on, and if you get a bad feeling about it, try to solve the problem ooooor take a break from him. It all just sounds too fishy to me. I know how it feels to be lied to like that and it fuckin' sucks, no one deserves it. Good luck lady.
Thanks. I don't believe for a second that anything is 'going on' I just hate that he didn't trust me and that I can't be involved with this girl's issues. I mean, I'm friends with her too, and I feel left out. Thanks for the advice though, I do intend on talking to him about it. Overall, the night was horrible. My parents ended up getting pissed drunk and argued for hours about shit. It seems like there is no where I can go tonight that I can just be okay. Man, I think today was one of the worst I have ever had.
Awe. I'm sorry dear. That's no good. I hate times like that! But hopefully once you get things sorted out with your guy, it'll get better.
Seriously??? Ignoring everything else that is wrong with your situation... Your boyfriend asked you to leave your home, so he could have another woman come over and stay the night. Why is there any question of what you should do... dump him, find a new place to live... It doesn't matter if you think there is something going on or not between them, he asked you to leave YOUR HOME... Why would you want to be in any relationship where you are that low on the totem pole??? Get some self-respect.
It really wasn't that big a deal. yes, I was upset, but not because I was asked to leave, but because I wasn't trusted. I think after this whole ordeal was over, I was like, god I overreacted. My boyfriend was sorry, I don't think he realized he hurt me. It's all good now.
