ok...so I'm a young guy, not very sexually experienced...I had some bad experiences actually, though all with girls who I had a lot of affection with so none of it ended "badly" in that way. But let's just say, I don't know what I'm doign down there! I am not sure if I ever penetrated or if I just rubbed around inside the labia minora :s it's possible I penetrated, I can;t be sure, at the itme I didn;t have a clue what a vagina was made up of (now I know pretty well but onyl from diagrams! Don;t laugh!) But anyway, my question is, how hard does my erection have to be to penetrate the vagina? Obviously, not bendable, but is that enoguh? Or does it have to be *rock hard* Because Mine is quite big (not boasting, I'm jsut a tall guy), and it sometimes is hard, but not stretched to the limit, and when it is, it actually hurts and so goes down to a smaller size (should I see a doctor). btu naywya, this lack of confidence is makign me avoid sexual situations, as I think, when I get there, what if I can't "get it in"...I'm nto worried about not getting an erection just worried it won't be hard neough to penetrate. So, any answer will be appreciated...I need help!
dude - you just need to stop worrying! it doesnt have to be rock hard - just hard enough so that you can press it into her without it bending. I think that if you had been inside her - you would know about it, its a very "engulfing feeling" - you also would normally be able to get your entire dick into her - you will know when that happens. My advice - relax, enjoy, play around a bit and have fun. her her really wet first (with fingers, mouth etc) then play - slip your dick in a bit, take it out, slip it in some more. and you can look what you are doing down there you know
Well if your young and hung like a moose. I would think the lady involved will take care of the not quite fully erect phase of the sex act.
I'd advise you to get hold of a FleshLight. As well as being a fantastic Sex Toy, they are also sold as Sexual Training Aids - and with good cause - as well as being great fun, with the right lube they feel extremely realistic. There is the other option, of course. If you ifind you don't get sufficiently aroused when faced with a sexual situation, then perhaps your attraction is not primarily for women.
Hi, ah, Tool, the old times. In the salad days of our youth everything was so completely different. At that time boys were boys and girls were girls and they had known how to fuck . Regards Gyro
Several solutions - you can pinch the bottom of your slightly soft penis as you enter her vagina, which will force the blood forward and harden it as you enter. If you wear a condom (and you should), the condom encasing your penis often hardens it. You can have her put your penis in her vagina - she knows where the right opening is. You can have a light on so you can see what is what. You say that when you get erect it sometimes hurts and "goes down to a smaller size". It sounds like you are uncut and cannot fully retract your foreskin, and when it gets hard the glans stretches the foreskin as it tries to get free of it, and when it starts to hurt you lose your erection. If that is the problem, stretching of the foreskin after applying cortizone cream to the underside can often help. If the problem is something else, PM me to discuss further. Every young guy has "performance anxiety" at first. Don't worry about it.
Also, as you are probably well aware from masturbating, the whole orgasmic experience can often be heightened if you are stimulating a penis that isn't 100% erect, as this can sometimes numb the senses. Half way between flaccid & erect is usually ideal - like hard rubber.
