Are you recieving enough foreplay ?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by GentleBen, Nov 8, 2007.

  1. Mr. Mojo Risin'

    Mr. Mojo Risin' Senior Member

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    Ahahaha, you're a great woman! ;)
     
  2. BabyMopar

    BabyMopar Member

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    i love alot of foreplay.. more then 20 minutes.. you have to pre-heat the oven before you go sticking things in it ;)
     
  3. GentleBen

    GentleBen Member

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    he he thats cute ! :)
     
  4. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    "i" before "e" except after "c"...
     
  5. morgasm

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    yess , guys can just stick it right there and don't rewally need to touch and caress before,
    but a woman really needs to be kissed, touched and caressed before being penetrated!
    It's a crucial step before sex!
     
  6. ##Angela

    ##Angela Member

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    More then 20 min for me:)
     
  7. Mrs. White

    Mrs. White Member

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    I prefer 20+ minutes when we do get into foreplay.
     
  8. GentleBen

    GentleBen Member

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    The more the better and the wetter !!! :p

    Seriously if you go beyond 20 mins it gets even better, as long as the foreplay is affective and pleasurable.

    I've read some women here don't want foreplay or are too eager for penetration.

    Well they should ask themselves do they want to experience orgasm - the best a women can have ?

    I just read one of your other posts, and I feel compelled to say "Ouch !! ... " sex from my perspective shouldn't be painful, thats the opposite of what it should be like.

    I'm not surprised in the least, that you can't get to orgasm.

    If your partner is hurting you I think you need to think about what you can do to make it pleasureable.

    I often read similar things in other forums and just "cringe" at the thought of what it must be feeling like.

    Don't you think to yourself "Hey there is something wrong here ?".

    If I thought my partner was in pain I wouldn't be doing it.
     
  9. karinmom

    karinmom Member

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    10 min
     
  10. sg girl

    sg girl Member

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    i have diff lovers
    they all vary in diff times
    i cant last more than 20 min on forplay
    by then im yelln sumtin like
    "i want u inside me....now!!"
    and they usually get the point lol
     
  11. King of Zanzabar

    King of Zanzabar Member

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    The answer to "how much foreplay" is easy -- until she's ready for something else.

    Truth is, it shouldn't be called FORE-play; just PLAY!
     
  12. GentleBen

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    fore: at or towards the front

    foreplay: the sexual activity such as kissing and touching that people do before they have sex.

    I just stick to words that they use in the dictionary.
     
  13. 420twentyfour7

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    Yea but I don't think that def. up to date, phone sex is a form of foreplay no? Foreplay comes in stages, how many stages is up to the parties, but I think there are many forms of foreplay that include quote from the dictionary but other things also.
     
  14. Kama

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    I go till the wife tells me she is ready, and when she says that I better get on with it!

    Usually its 20+ minutes.
     
  15. GentleBen

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    Hmmm well if its done with finesse you may find she likes it more and more.:D
     
  16. GentleBen

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    Caressing a women with your hands would have to be one of the most affective methods I know of to get a women to orgasm.

    I'm not sure why that is, something to do with "touching" or being touched ?

    http://www.innerself.com/Sex_Talk/Hunger_for_Touch.htm

    There is a difference between rubbing and caressing.

    Caressing means gliding your hands over a womens body almost to the point of not touching her.

    Rubbing on the other hand is pressure and friction, this is not what I mean when I say "caressing".

    If you're a guy rub your genitals or your abdomen, and take note of the feedback from your own body.

    How does it feel to you ? Be honest.

    I think you would agree that pressure and friction are not as good as caressing.

    Now if the skin on your hands is dry, calloused and cracked its not going to feel soft and smooth on a womens body.

    Which is a bit of a problem.

    You need soft, smooth, skin on your hands otherwise its going to feel unpleasant for the women.

    What can one do about this ?

    I don't know ?

    Moisturiser ?

    Maybe ?

    What are mens thoughts on this ?
     
  17. King of Zanzabar

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    Number one rule of lovemaking: PAY ATTENTION!!
     
  18. Katie<3

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    I give LOADSSSSSSSSSSSSS of foreplay. I like it. I like making my man happy.

    But I get fuck all. ha. Well I get some. But no where near as much as he gets! Im just generous.
     
  19. GentleBen

    GentleBen Member

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    Oh thats a shame.

    Well why not, its just not good enough !!! :D
     
  20. Katie<3

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    I dont really mind. Hes brilliant in intercourse.
     

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