ow. i had rough sex 4 days ago, and stupidly did not use lube. now i have a tear on one side of my labia, and one right below my vagina. this is unbelievably painful - it's almost constantly hurting, especially when urinating, but it even hurts when i walk. i can't even get one finger in without it hurting like hell. i'm going to see my gyn in 2 days, but i'm freaking out cuz this has never happened to me before. when is this going to heal??? i've been putting neosporin on it every night, and taking warm baths, but it seems like there has been very little improvement since this has happened. does anyone have any other suggestions that can help this heal faster? should i wait until i'm completely healed to have sex - or even be fingered? another question to those have experience this: once you tear, are you more likely to tear again? i really like it rough and though i usually am good about using lube, i really don't want to have to have gentle sex (blah.) all the time.
wow.........Next time someone says "I tore that bitch up" My reaction is going to be completely different. Sorry to hear about your vag. atriot:
Yeah, I'm sorry to hear. I suppose your doctor will treat the tear, and maybe even be able to make suggestions on how to prevent it from happening again. In the meantime, take it easy!
:smilielol5: as for the topic: i think vaginal cuts might take a little longer to heal, do worry to badly just keep it clean and try not to move your legs to much, let it heal up, and dont be to bashful around your gynecologist he/she's prob heard it all and maybe had a few first hand experiences
