How and when to break it to her

So I'm very happily in a relationship now, and I want to be honest and open with my lovely lady. She knows I smoke weed and is totally fine with it, so I figure the next step is to tell her about my love affair with lucy and other psychs. I'm thinking id tell her about shrooms before acid since society has made such an awful reputation for it. Getting her to trip with me is going to be a long battle though. Thanks for the advice!

 

NOOOOOOOOOOO!! not yet dude. to people who havnt done it, lsd is so scary. do not tell her, please for your sake. you dont have to keep it from her, if she asks then u can tell her everything but im saying dnt go out and be like i trip acid and shrooms.

who knows maybe she will be down to trip lol. but i would keep my mouth shut dude. good luck

 

You shouldn't keep things from your girlfriend. It's better you tell her sooner, rather than later. These things get more serious the longer you wait. She should accept you for who you are if she really loves you. And if she won't look at the issue with an open mind, you should ask yourself if she's really right for you anyway. Best of luck.

 

what she doesnt kno wont hurt her ^_- and a white lie to keep things at peace is better than the blatant truth which can destroy all in one day.

Dont force her to trip with you! it has to be someones own self righteous decision! if she does decide give her half a dose mixed with a few sips of OJ

keep vitamin b12 around for shrooms lol

if you ever trip hard balls on most psyches take a zanax or clonipin lol

if she really loves you then it will show and love will prevail! but tread lightley and probe how she feels about those drugs before coming clean.

 

tell her you smoke crack and then tell her ur joking but u do like to trip and she will be relieved ur not a crack head

 

i dont really understand what makes it a big deal. the two of you are getting to know each other, if lsd has shaped the person you are sharing with her, and she loves and appreciates who you are then it shouldnt be an issue. if she gets all hung up on it and cant accept your choices and lifestyle then its a clear signal that you are dealing with someone who is unable to love who you are or is only willing to accept parts of you. its a pattern thats likely to come up again with other parts of you she would disaprove of, this is only going to fuel resentments between the two of you in the long run and isnt worth either of your time. i dont think its healthy for lovers to hide themselves from one another. be yourself and be recieved as yourself. truth is the only thing that is going to define your individuality in a relationship, your going to lose yourself if you are not yourself.

 

Does she smoke weed or do anything at all?

 

I think its cool to tell her you have done LSD...I mean, if she is cool with the weed I can't see her problem with LSD.

I would say definitely don't try and talk her into doing LSD, but my friend talked his girlfriend into doing it when she was apprehensive and she ended up loving it.
A friend of mine wasn't nervous at all about trying it and she ended up freaking out a bit at the end when she couldn't fall asleep.
Just drop some knowledge on her about it.

I personally had no interest in trying LSD until I read "The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test" by Tom Wolfe. Maybe she just needs a good glimpse.

:rofl:

 

Wow, thanks for all the great responses! She's about 3 years younger than I am and had smoked weed amply in highschool, but says she doesn't do it anymore because she didn't like just being glued to the couch (mind you I'm paraphrasing). I have no short-term aspirations of convincing her to trip, but I would be lying if I said the thought of convincing her hadn't entered my head. And I of course know that I shouldn't push her (or anybody for that matter) to trip, that would just be disrepectful.

I guess my main concern is really, how to tell her. I'd rather not bring it up as "I trip, how does that make you feel?" Maybe this is just something I'm going to have to figure out myself, I don't know. Another concern for me is that her and my younger sister are very close, so I wouldn't want confidential info to accidently be unveiled to my family members. I'm not saying she would deliberately tell mysister that I trip, but accidents do happen. Again all the responses are appreciated!

 

Tell her and hope she has an open mind. I thought I loved someone that was very open minded. She turned out to be very apprehensive of pretty much everything about me. She knew I smoked weed and used psychedelics from the start, and perhaps that's why she wanted to be involved with me because she was getting some foolish sense of being able to save me from my sins. I wouldn't want to be with someone like that, especially when it is my own belief my psychedelic use is spiritually productive. In many people's uneducated minds they assume Acid to be a narcotic, and one of the most powerful too. In their minds it is a path towards carelessness, when in reality it's quite the contrary.

Also, once I told her God put psychedelics on earth for spiritual use. She said..."For the record psychedelics are man made." The one man made psychedelic I use, LSD, is derived from Lysergic Acid Amide, the naturally occurring acid. Many people would think this man made part is an evidence of its evil, however its one of the good acts of humanity. Working to make the world a more open place. Just as cannabis has been highly modified by human work to increase its potency.

You decide, is your love affair with lucy a good one because she helps you tremendously or are you just using it for fun so therefor it's not a big deal if you stop to follow through with this love of yours. IF the earlier don't waste your time on someone if they're going to be blatantly ignorant and make incorrect assumptions. Remind her that she's never in any position to talk down on it without having used it herself. Wisdom comes from experience only.

 

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Why? You ashamed of somethin man?


Keeping silent about it is doing nothing about the mass ignorance regarding LSD. Waita be hip!