yes, but what then if your actions still cause suffering on another being? one must also be conscious of the effects of their actions. so if you are making actions for the right reasons but out of ignorance causing suffering that isn't exactly very righteous. even if you are making decisions for the right reasons it still must be tempered with wisdom. eace:
many thanks. i guess that the issue at hand is passed, and i'm pretty happy with the outcome. but you still need to apply what you have learned, correct? to go over the same situations and learning again and again wouldn't really be learning would it. learning implies some kind of progression. now i wasn't saying that the oneness was bullcrap, i just didn't want to hear replies like "good and bad actions are both opposite sides of the whole so there is no difference" haha. i guess i can agree with some of that.
The fact is that good and evil are both opposite sides of the whole. There is a difference though. The good side is much less limited. If you give yourself to love it is infinite, if you give yourself to fear it is very limited, sooner or later there will be nowhere to go, you will have to give up.
I think only you can know that for your self. My mind is different than yours. I know and try to do what I think is right, you do the same for yourself.Do what you feel is right at the time of doing it. Reflect upon it later. If you were wrong you'll know, un do what you did. Just don't kill people or anything. What ever your mind thinks is right is right.
Desos heres another idea. Take all the big decisions your facing write them down on squares of paper, one option per sheet. Go to somewhere with ducks or geese and lay the papers around on the ground, maybe hold them in place with rocks. Then the first ones to get shit on is the answer. The Gods of fate and goose shit will have provided you the answer.
Make sure it is geese or ducks and not chickens otherwise people will accuse you of making chickenshit choices in your life.
Just do whatever your best is. And what your best is is always subject to change. Just do what you can for the moment, don't regret. Not everythings gonna always be candy and sunshine. Psychedelics just add new perspectives to look at the same old 'shit', nothing more nothing less lol.