Guys talking about BANGING THEIR GF's....

Is it normal for guys to talk about how good their "night" was with their gf's to their homeboys as it is for females to talk about how great her lover was to her homegirl?

Or is that disrespectful?
And that any business done in closed doors must remain in closed doors.

 

Yeah it's normal I think... I know that's how most guys are. I tell only my close friends but nothing too into detail. Everyone's different so i'm sure to some it would be disrespectful, but if someone knows their lover isn't into telling others private stuff like that the lover should keep his/her lips sealed.

 

You mean younger guys right??^

 

Well that's the type of guys I was referring to, younger ones yeah. And I definitely don't think any married guy does.

 

I'd say "normalcy" is irrelevant... I personally don't talk about it because I think that it's none of their business. I'm not trying to get my friends to be jealous or turned on by my/our sexploits, so I keep my mouth shut. Nowadays I feel like I could talk about having sex in a way that is respectful to my little woman, but I still don't really do it.

 

I think it is normal for a man to brag about how his night was with every friend he has, however with girls it is only the close friends they can trust not to tell everyone that they tell.

 

Do you have a reason that you think this? Is it the "men are studs and women are sluts" kind of reasoning or something deeper?

 

Basically yeah... Men are studys and women are sluts. That is how my school was and although that's not how I am I see it all around me.

 

yea, that's why I don't like the word normal... a lot of times the "normal" thing to do is pretty fucked up and people are made to feel bad for their deviation from a norm (fucked up or not). I guess my point is that normal does not equal right, or good, or best, it is merely a statistical reference.

 

I wouldn't say statistical reference, but I do agree.

 

i wouldn't discuss anything w/ a serious relationship. if its a one niter, fling or someone i'm not serious about. i don't mind bragging

 

I've never really been interested in any of my friends intimate lives and likewise, I've never cared to share my intimate details with them. It's none of their/my business.

 

I think it is a somewhat homosexual to talk about your sexual exploits with other guys. Why would you want tell anyone or hear about it? I think it is only appropriate when it is part of a crazy story and not the story itself.

If you are just telling me how your girlfriend can't handle your big cock I am not interested, hehe.

 

Of course it's ok! My mates fancy the pants off my girlfriend so I love nothing more then to remind them of how good the sex is.

Haha love the look on their faces!

 

Most single guys do this.

 

I do it all the times and love to hear stories from my buds. Keeps things real
Hell, I have even sent pictures to a good friend of me fuckin my wife just to brag that I was getting some and he wasn't.

 

Personally, I've never been one to brag or discuss details of my sexual hook ups. If I never got laid at all, then I might have a reason to brag when I did... but that's not the case. Even if my friends were to ask for details, about the most I would give them was whether she was any good or not. I always feel like they can try and hook up with her themselves if they really want to know what it's like.

 

Yeah idk, lotta my friends talk about banging chicks and shit. It's good and all but I don't know why people go into detail about people they fuck. For some it just seems like some sort of ego-boost. I always regarded relationships as something more personal than that, but that's just me.

 

The accomplishments which I share with my prick are between him and me. We're a proud entity!

 

I think it's normal. However, I would hope they would show just a bit of discretion. Like not telling them "Oh yeah, she has this mole on her ass and I was staring at it as I banged her from behind" or some shit like that. That would be embarrassing.