kinda related to another post, but first of how can u tell if u r insecure? and second, how do u become insecure? im pretty damn sure im insecure in my relationship, and in any relationship and life in general. always wondering if my gf still loves me, cheating on me, if my mates like me, every fucking thing goes thru my head and tbh it really annoys me. i dunno y i get like it, which is y im asking, how do u become insecure? cud it b because my parents split up when i was a lil kid and its affected me emotionally, always wondering if someone i love is gona just get up an leave? dunno myself, but wud b nice to know!! thanks a lot!!
you're definately insecure about urself. that's not good cause u need that as ur support to go ahead in life and relationships. Try to find the reasons WHY you feel like this.. why is that u dont trust your girlfriend and your friends? do you really think they have a reason to want to leave you? People around you are with you because they love you and care for you there's no good reasons for them to just leave you.. think of that. Be strong and be a good friend so others will always need you around and constantly show this to you.
The more you think it mate the worst it'll be. You'll push people away if you dont show them trust so be urself and be thankful for the people you've got around you! Try hypnosis if it carries on, I hear its good for that kind of stuff All the best.
hmmmm, you go to online forums to seek validation for you behavior? yep, you're insecure... try something new...
