Hi people, I've never seen something like that myself, so i came here to ask you your opinions about it. I'm a married guy, with a 3yo son. And I really enjoy smoking a green one. So, how will it be when my boy grow up a little? Will he think that I'm a damn lawbreaker? Will it be a delusion for him? It's better to let him know that I smoke and tell him what I think about it; or keep doing it alone out in my car or when I'm the only one awake at home? If it's better to keep it covered, then till when? Also, my wife don't care about me smoking, but she don't wants me to spend money at it, even if it's just less then USD 7/month (I'm south american). I really like to smoke my joint sometimes, but I don't wanna be a troublemaker to anybody. What do you think about it?
I'm eventualy gonna be in your position, and I wouldn't allow him to smoke until he's well into his teens, (unless your gonna let him drink beer and stuff at 12, I don't know how strict you are) if he knows you do it he will want to do it as soon as posible, so I probably wouldn't tell him until he's 15 or 16 (or whenever you think it's good for him to start) but my guess is, he'll try it on his own. When that happens, I would tell him that weed is one thing, and that you like it too, but other drugs cause problems. (unless you also like the occasional line of cocaine too) but ultimantly, it's up to you and whatever you think is best. Good luck
hmm, to keep it hidden till he discover the weed by himself is a good point to consider... Ah, I was thinking about farming my own weed to have no costs, but then I'd need to lie about my strong-smell-plants... And tanking more pot and reselling part or it for the same price that i've bought the entire is as well an alternative to have no costs, but i really appreciate very much more the "gardener" image than a "hemp dealer" one... But anyway, do you think i'll be a delusion for him to see his dad as he had never saw? Like if I was lying all my life?
I really don't know. It depends who he grows up to be. If he buys into all the media propoganda, he could be mad. If he turns out to be a chill stoner he'd probably be excited. I don't think there's one right answer, just go with whatever you think is right
I had a friend whose dad smoked weed and he never told his son. But eventually we found a huge ounce of chronic in his car, and so we took some to smoke. That was like some of the best weed I have smoked too. I found out like 2 years later that my friend ended up smoking with his dad
When I was a lad, i walked in on my pop smoking froma 3 foot bong accidently. He tucked it away, and played dumb. I didn't know what it was. But it was all cool. My father is a responsible, hardworking man who is also pretty chill.
I did never imagine that I'd find such a place to see people talking so different from around me actually... Really surprised... Well guys, thanks a lot, to all of you. It's more about it that I'd probably heard in my whole life. It's true that we fathers sometimes think that we rule the world of another person... That's noting to me to worry about what's he gonna think about me; I should just care about being a nice person, in my own way. Thanks again.
My pops kept it hidden from us kids for years and we were none the wiser, and when we were teens he opened up to us about it, and talked about responsible and positive enjoyment, not letting it rule your world (for example if you can't afford it, or if you have other obligations) etc. I certainly appreciated that as a teenager, and still do as an adult.
