wants to get it out of her system

so my girlfriend says she wants to settle down with me, but first she wants to fuck different guys and get it out of her system. I told her I would not be a part of that. Any suggestions?

 

hhahahahahaha

 

She's not ready for a relationship yet.

 

I'm sorry, but this girl sounds like a whore. She likes you and all, but wants to go and slut around before she commits? Uhhh, what's wrong with that picture. If I were you'd I'd kick her ass to the curb, she obviously isn't ready for a real meaningful relationship.

Also, what BS about getting it all out of her system.. once a whore always a whore. She'll be cheating on you (if she isn't already) anytime a guy looks sideways at her. Best to kick this girl to the curb now and save yourself a lot of time and heartache.

Just my two cents on the situation. Take it or leave it.

 

yeah i agree with the posters. do you really think she'd just stop cold turkey like that? unless shes a very sensible and intelligent person, (and that means a person that would be on here or that can give you good advice) don't do it man.
is she already your girlfriend? so what does settling down mean?
if it means like marrying, i'd say hell no, unless you're open for a very open relationship that you should take part of too. if its just the girlfriend, don't, if she wants you, she should prove herself. and she ain't

 

def nto a trustworthy companion if she truly had real feeling for you she would not need to get anything out of her system, this is a huge red flag man. DO NOT date this girl, if you have nay feelings at all i suggest getting over them ass soon as possible and start looking for someone who truly cares for you.

 

whats her number

 

:smilielol5: Save yourself alot of aggravation and dump her now

 

I agree with everything that has been said here. Unless you're interested in having an open relationship for a while (that would be my solution), get out.

 

thanks for all the help guys, im so confused!

 

suggest an open relationship so you two can fuck eachother, as well as others?

 

If you want an open relationship, go for it.... but keep in mind you will end up with anything anyone in your town might be carrying.... I would save my dick the various infections, and keep moving.

 

It's ok MatMan, I dont think part of her plan is for you to be a part of all that.
If you are really not into dating a tramp, if you aren't cool with playing Russian roulette each time you slide your cock in her, drop her like a hot, steamy turd and find someone more in line with your ideals and morality.

 

This is an uneducated response. Open relationships are where it's at now adays. The vast majority of people who enter into monogomous relationships will end up cheating anyways.

 

IMHO, i do not see a match between you two. You are inclined towards stable monogamy, she is inclined towards free love. If you both were into sleeping with other partners then that might work, but then why be together. What would set you apart from the others she was sleeping with, and vice-versa?

Commitment, I think, requires BOTH. Best Advice:

 

I didn't say open relationships don't work, I said with the girl in question, he's gunna catch something. There's a difference between "open" and "slut". You know some awful number like 1 out of 4 TEENAGE girls in the US has an incurable STD? have fun with that bro. If you just want to fuck everything that moves, that doesn't mean "open", it means she shouldn't be in a relationship at all. All an open relationship means is you guys might both screw around with SELECT and trusted parteners, together or apart, and if someone gets drunk and slips up or whatever it's no big deal.

 

And this is the part that I was referring to when I said you made an uneducated response. To suggest that just because someone sleeps with multiple partners means that they have STI's/STD's is just naive. Despite what you may have been lead to believe... not everyone has something, and the chances of actually catching something are extremely low with the use of a condom.

 

Despite what you may have read on the internet, if you actully had sex yourself, you would know that especially when mixed with alcohol, condoms just don't work. Not because of a physical problem with the condom, but the people using them. They come off, both by accadent and frustration, and unless you have a condom that covers your entire genital region and 6 inches in each direction, it ain't gunna do a whole lot against a lot of catchables. It will probably keep you from getting HIV/AIDS and a select set of other STD's, but have fun with the rest.

It has nothing to do with multipule partners, it has something to do with some tramp who wants to fuck as many guys as she can to "get it our of her system". THat's a very dangerous phrase. You can think what you like, but the cold hard truth of it is infections are everywhere, and if your partner simply has sex to get it out of her system, bad things will happen to your johnson.

I'm all for free love, open relationships, and the like. I'm not for reckless stupidity and getting burned because your girl can't keep her pants on. I don't know what idillic place you live where no one has any infections, but where I live, you watch out, half the town has obvious blisters all over their mouth, just thinking about their genitals makes me cringe.

 

If you actually had enough sex, you’d realize that STD’s aren’t as prevalent as you have been lead to believe. Now if you’re fucking with back-alley crack whores who’ve never had a check up in their life… then yeah, they probably have something and you enter at your own risk. But not everyone that has sex has one, and even more, they are not always as easy to catch as you might think. I know what I’m talking about… I speak from experience. I have a lot of sex, with a lot of different partners, and a lot of unprotected sex (which for the record I’m not trying to advocate). I also know a lot of people who do the same. And guess what... the vast majority of them have never caught anything.

Another real world example: My best friend has been dating a girl with herpes for like 3 years now… and he still hasn’t caught it. Why?? Because he uses a condom and doesn’t have sex when she has a breakout. Until you have some personal experience to back up your claims, you need to keep your naïve comments to yourself and stop spreading ignorant information.

Again… I’m not saying STD’s aren’t out there. I’m not saying you can’t catch them. But let’s get the facts straight.

 

I am going to quit smoking just let me smoke 2 more packs

I am going to loose weight but I want to eat some cheeseburgers first

I am going to be with you, let me just fuck some other guys .....

leave her please your better than that