really need help, any replies would be greap PLEASE (thankyou)

i mean i am currently with a girl now and really enjoy being with her, but this has being going on for many years now 24/7 sexual thoughts about men, i mean i take anti depressants for ocd, but i am looking at men to see how i feel, i am looking and going well he is goodlooking then will imagine having sex with them to see how it feels, at first i feel like no it wasnt for me, but no i feel so relaxed with it all. I have being thinking everyday like this for the past 7 years i became so bad with all the thought every day i had to seea therapist. My mum and dad know all about this aswell, my thoughts etc. i go on gay porn to see how i feel all the time, to see if i like it and it doesnt disgust em anymore like it use to. quite frankly it looks very easy to do etc. but i dont thinki want that lifestyle and would have the romantic feelings (please explain what romantic feelings are?) its just the sex that seems to be on my mind every day of my life.

 

........Big deal? go have sex with men if it makes you happy. Do you have the same feelings about girls? (I mean, I personally am strait, and I guess I'm like that with girls... Though not that extreme at all )

You're human bro, get over it. Accept yourself, and you'll feel great, wether you be gay, strait or bi.

 

y would that b disgusting in the firstplace???
I think you should try it out and see how you feel, if you cant get over it..... you might b bi, not gay straight up, I donno...

 

I know it's a tough issue, and I can relate, but be honest with yourself, and try to be honest with others about yourself. You feel what you feel. Sometimes you need things.

 

what's tough about it? you either want it or you don't, and you'll either go get it or not. unless you're psychologically screwed, then of course, it's hopelessly intractable.

it always puzzles me why people deny themselves things they want. why is that? masochism? opinion of others? i don't get it.

 

there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. you're stressing about it too much. let thoughts come to you, instead of trying to control them. go for it. if you don't feel romantically attached to men, then ya don't and its fine.
just definitely do what you want with the thought statement in mind. and you're eventually gonna die, i would just do it even if you think you'll regret it in the future

 

First of all why do you keep re-posting the same thing? even the same post some times?

It is fine to like guys. Do it if that is what you feel. Dont let people tell you it is wrong, and dont beat yourself up over it. You are putting too much into it. If you enjoy the company then go for it. If you dont feel attached to them then whatever, there are plenty of gay men who will love that about you.

Best of luck to ya.