Need some advice.

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Pentum, Jan 18, 2010.

  1. Pentum

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    Alright, so a long story short : I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half, I'm 19, so is she. Being honest, I'm the type of a person that sticks to his mate. All I want is stability and none of that fucking every single chick I see student'ish life. Someone to care for and someone that cares for me. You get the picture.
    So here's what happened recently. Me and my girlfriend almost broke up not so long ago, and the only reason that we are still together is because I proved it to her how much I love her and made her search for that three word feeling deep in her heart. Just today I asked her what was the reason that she wanted to break up, and she told me that she missed that singles' life. I've currently just told myself to live with it and enjoy every single moment that I get to spend with her while getting prepared for a break up. I love her too much to just simply let her go and too much to keep her with me if she wants to go.

    Any advice on what should my later moves be? Since I'm rather confused...

    Thanks in advance.
     
  2. xxaru

    xxaru Guru of Porn

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    How old is she?
     
  3. Pentum

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    She's 19 as well.
     
  4. xxaru

    xxaru Guru of Porn

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    You might have to let her go. She's really young, and it's been my experience that a lot of young girls will want to experience life a bit more than to just stick with the same guy for the rest of their life. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you, but you have to understand that she's a young woman and it's only natural for her to want to explore what else is out there.
     
  5. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    Let her go, if she expressed it in the first place she will always been suppressing it by not choosing the single life. You guys are young, it hurts but you should both perhaps try that for a while. If it was meant to be you will find your way back to one and other.

    I say this, since I was in a sort of similar situation once.
     
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