Are you recieving enough foreplay ?

Well thats ok then, as long as your happy with what your getting.

 

as loooong as possible. The wetter, the better

 

I like foreplay, I like it a lot more than sex.

Same feeling, but you don't get squashed. And I don't have to do ANYTHING!! That sounds like the real deal to me.

 

where were all these men when i was single?!
i dont get foreplay, and im lucky if i get one or two minutes of intercourse.........
however, with my first boyfriend (i was 17 then, im 21 now), we had months of foreplay before i gave him my virginity, and even after that we would go hours......i miss the touch of a passionate man. but i guess its my fault anyways.

 

Oh bluecrayon thats a bit sad.

 

Not receiving enough foreplay, so i'm pimping myself out

make an orderly line, ladies

 

GentleBen, you are so right to include verbal teasing as one of the ingrediants in foreplay. Done right, it can add immensely to the enjoyment of sex and the intensity of orgasm. For instance, before I had extramarital sex I had never before had any man but my husband. So, when I kind of fell for this marvelous man I met, my hubby teased me mercilessly about how deliciously wicked extramarital sex is, and if I would just loosen the marital bonds for a few hours to be with him, the wickedness would make it soooo good for me. And on and on, appealing to some latent prurience in me I never knew existed.

Well, I did and it was. The guy was very imaginative and talented in his own right, waiting until I was practically crying for release before claiming my marital virginity, and there were other factors involved that made it so good, but my hubby's teasing is what got me there in the first place.

 

Firstly thanks for replying.

Yes sexual arousal when you think about it is very much sexual fantasy, your mind is the critical component that either makes or breaks whether you have an orgasm.

A guy only has to say the wrong thing and the arousal is gone.

This is another reason I believe that having the lights off is better because it lets your "mind fill in the spaces" no pun intended or implied.

I think some light is good but too much light is detrimental.

I think men and probably women are easily to trick and lose sight of what is really important in a relationship.

You read about speed dating where the guys mission is to get into a womens knickers and to get as many as possible.

I think men are easily duped into less than what they could experience and only cheat themselves out of the pinnicle of sexual fulfillment, and settle for sex that is selfish and shallow and lacks what most will never experience orgasm with a women.

Through ignorance, low intelligence, herd instinct, whatever it is that causes men to think that porn sex is the ultimate goal when really one has not examined sex enough to realise that really one is just cheating oneself out of the pinnicle of sexual fulfilment by excepting anything less than orgasm with a woman.

If like I have said many times before, you can enjoy the journey and then finally the sex you will understand what I mean.

Use the carrot not the stick when you are courting a women.

People enjoy what is enjoyable regardless of their sex.

So if you make it enjoyable for a women you will also enjoy together the goods of your effort to please her.

A good thing to do is practice on yourself, and be honest.

Caress your own body and ask yourself does that feel good ?

If it does then you it will most likely feeel good for her.

In fact you can practice on yourself if you thinking raming a dildo up her anus will be pleausrable for her - do it to yourself.

And be honest does it feel pleasurable ???