My parents are seperating and me and my mom are moving for the 4th time, and this time my mom said she wasnt coming back. I Feel good about this and I cant wait. But at the same time I feel kinda bad for ditching my dad. But ever since he said to me "You'll never do anything with your life but live on the streets and smoke pot". Ive wanted to leave. The worst part though is telling him and packing my stuff and shit.
Same place except in the apartments across the street from where we moved once. About 15 minutes...But I REALLY dont wanna start spending 1 week at her house and 1 week at his house. that shit sucks.
it does suck...ive been dealing with that shit since i was 5 years old. We've moved countless times and i've had the same problem with my dad as yours man. Just tell him the truth..I told my dad and now I live with my mom (stopped the week on week off gig) and now me and my dad are closer. But I'm sorry you gotta deal with it man. Peace and good luck
If you feel bad it might be real cool for you to call your dad tomorrow and stop by and see him after dinner. Stop by for no particular reason. Bring some homework, hang out watch tv. Talk a little. But just hang out. If he has a show you both like to watch "hey dad-it would be cool if I came over and we watched.." It might take you reaching out to him to help him be better with you. If you're up to it. It's hard on you. It's hard on your mom. And it's hard on your dad. A lot of times people say stuff to people they care about that they really don't mean-but it just comes out.
Best wishes, my life was ruined when my mom and step dad separated. There was no more parental guidance and I ran away when I was 12-13 and never really went back... Sometimes it is for the best, and I hope you mother is very supportive!!
I dont really speak much with my dad to be honest..like at dinner we'll be alone at the table and he doesnt say much except I need a job.
Sucks. It's your call and how you feel about it too. Take your feelings into account. Maybe give him a call-just say hi. If there is a show you know that he likes to watch maybe you go over and watch it with him. Maybe you don't say much. But you're there with him. Maybe you just say a joke a two about the show and that's about it. But it's really how you feel about the situation.
what sucks is that he doesnt even know yet. My mom wanted to leave on monday but doesnt know how to tell him and stuff..
Damn, where the hell did you live?? at least you can see both of your parents my friends mom wants to make her dad mess up so she can get custody and she planted coke in his house and put child porn in his vcr and used his credit card at foxwoods...needless to say shes going to jail.
