How to flirt with girl on chat?

this is on fb chat. theres this girl i like, but i don't know how to strike up a convo with her. no shes doesn't go to my school, and i haven't met her ever, but shes a friend of my friends. we talked last time for a while, which went well. so far we have just talked once. but at first she thought i was a creeper, and told my friend that, which frustrates me cause i was just trying to be nice. Like what the hell am i supposed to say?? I am paranoid of starting convos with her cuz i don't want awkward pauses. like
heyyy. hi. supp..? nmu. nm.... ENDDD CONVOO I DO NOT WANT THAT but like seriously, what do u say after that?????? is there an answer?? And how do i not come off as a creeper? like is there anything more interesting to ask then whats up? and what can i say first initially as to avoid just a "hi." i HATE that. i get really shaky and nervous during awkward silences and when they show little interest

 

some chicks get immature about new friends and new conversations and resort to calling dudes "creepers." does she know you are a mutual friend? maybe she thought you were a random stranger.

if you need conversation ideas..

ask what she's up to this weekend
talk about something you're learning in school
look at her interests, music, see if you have similarities

etc

also, a silence is only awkward if you think it is..

 

Lol are you sure you are 27 talking to girls you've never even met on facebook? jk

Yeah silences in any sort of conversation aren't cool, just try to work through the usual slew of questions you ask someone to get to know them, but don't make it like an interrogation if yanno what I mean. Silences aren't completely terrible though as they are a good indicator if the girl is interested or not. If she picks the conversation back up from a silence then she either has something relevant to say or she is interested in your conversation. If she isn't, best advice, move on now. It won't be hard either as you've never met this person so you aren't likely to randomly run into them elsewhere.

That means you are golden, just go for it, and if shit blows up it won't matter as you don't even know this girl really haha.

 

You could hang out in real life.

It would seem less creepy than a stranger flirting with you on facebook

 

im 17! i just said 27 for reasons i don't even remember! this was like 3 years ago! lets get past this! k???

 

send her dick pics yo
be like "bitch, hop on that"

 

man up and just talk to her in person. i HATE it when people try to flirt online, its so pathetic

 

Ask her if she wants to cyber..

 

Yeah no problem, it just seemed odd with that age listed and this situation

You can change your age in the CP under the edit your details just fyi

And yeah you should have your mutual friend talk to this girl some more as teenage girls rely on their friends a lot for advice and counsel. Best thing to do is initiate some real life interaction though as otherwise this will stay a facebook infatuation.

 

Fix your age - get my response.

 

Well some people don't like to talk on the phone, plus when you are online you can multitask while conversing, hard to do a lot and stay focused on a phone conversation.

Flirting is flirting whether it is through text, handwritten letter, facebook chat, aim, or in real life, and all are welcome by me lol. Flirting doesn't mean less just because it is over the internet, as it carries the same connotation regardless.

Try to set something up with this girl, but if it doesn't work out then no biggie dude.

 

i meant more in person as opposed to online/over the phone etc.

 

U hav to contact an administered to change it.

 

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Well obviously, but he's never met this girl before so that isn't an option haha and I assumed the next available option would be phone. And IMO online>phone. Obviously nothing compares to real face to face conversation, but he could maybe video chat with her or something.

 

if she's a friend of a friend, then ask the mutual friend to get a group together to hang out or something, and talk to her in person.

i think talking to people online when i dont know them real well is strange, its just so impersonal

 

Group hang is worse than a 1 on 1 chat, even an online one imo. You usually don't get an opportunity to REALLY talk to the person you want to when you hang out as a group, as the group is always there to hear and criticize what you say, which isn't what you want.

The only thing the group hang would accomplish is hopefully making her feel less creeped by you/making talking to her frequently a little easier.

Also I'm not sure about you Check but for me getting set up on a group date by a mutual friend isn't really something to be happy about, as the person usually ends up hating it for some reason, if not only for the fact that they didn't set it up themselves.

 

asl? c2c?... wanna cyber?

 

^hahaha

 

She called you a creeper.... a ha ha ha
Time to find a new girl with a less creepy approach