my man wants to get me a lap dance...

So what do I expect? I am really into it and I think it would be hot for both myself and my husband.

What does the dancer do? Where do I put my hands?

 

Rules on that vary widely from state to state, club to club, and girl to girl. Some are very strict about not touching the girl (but she can usually touch you, except in some legislative districts where there is no contact allowed at all), others are much more liberal about looking the other way and you can pretty much feel her up all over as long as she lets you.

Find one that seems nice to you (yeah, strippers all act nice when they are working for tips but some are more obviously phony and impatient than others who seem like their kindness is almost genuine). Then just play it by ear. If it's one of the clubs where the dance area is visible or semi-visible from the main floor, peek over and see what other patrons are doing. If it's a totally private booth then you are probably going to have more latitude, just talk to her beforehand and ask her what she's OK with.

 

Thanks for responding! We just got back and let me tell you it was simply the best weekend of my life....Definiately exceeded my expectations. They were very liberal and my huband watched while I got several lap dances...Very Hot!

 

Can you describe the experience in a little more detail?