I bought this, but have yet to use it... what's your opinion of it? Do you like it, hate it or strongly recommend not to use it? I read that it's not a good idea to use so wasn't sure if anyone has used it. Thanks!
I wouldn't use anything that numbs the area. You should be able to feel any pain, which means stop what you are doing because you can cause damage.
i stick to Astroglide.. you don't need anything else... anal sex shouldnt hurt too much if your partner takes his time with you
Is this the cherry-flavored lube with the numbing agent? With regard to lubes, I think spit is the best. KY sucks because it turns sticky. Vaseline works great, but it's a bitch to clean.
Do yrself a favor and throw it out. Anesthetics don't relax you, they just make you not be able to feel if something's wrong. You shouldn't have to numb the area. You just need to be able to sufficiently relax. Pjur makes a silicone lube with jojoba in it, called Analyse Me. Jojoba is a natural muscle relaxant. You don't even need that, however. Just lots and lots of lubricant, and lots of play prior to insertion. start with a finger, massage the area. Deep breathing helps. Deep inhalation makes all the muscles down there relax during insertion. Once he gets it in maybe an inch and a half, have him stop. Hold completely still for about a minute. It'll help yr butt finish relaxing.
Thanks, you guys all basically said what i was figuring but didn't know if anyone actually used it... and i do use astroglide and have no issues, just really sticky/messy
I agree to not use any numbing agent but for different reasons: the journey to enjoyable anal sex is a large part of the fun! If your partner is skilled in the way of the sphincter, the worst case scenario is you will feel a little bit of discomfort, not pain. Lots of licking, fingering and lube with a dose of patience and you're good to go!
Don't use it! System JO makes a great lube for anal and it's OK for the front door as well. I have a couple of bottles next to the bed.
ANAL EASE IS EVIL! i worked almost 5 years in a hospitial emergency room. you see one hell of a lot of people, who come in with all sorts of weird shit, that they get stuck up into their assholes that, they can not get back out on their own. i have seen quite a few cases of people, who use anal ease with life threating results! i saw two guys who broke their dicks, during assfucking who used anal ease. anal ease does not just desitize the nerve endings in the asshole but, the nerve endings in the dick too. once you break your dick, your sex life is just about over! anal ease is a danger to both the assfucker and the assfuckee too! doctors have been reporting this stuff for years to the FDA. most of the victims of anal ease don't come forward to file reports due to the shame of the sex act that they were doing at the time and, lawyers. the FDA's hands are tied to do anything due to the victims not stepping forward. it took the FDA almost 80 years to be able compile enough reports to be able to ban spanish fly. i hate to think of the tens or hundered of thousands of people whom died from that shit. GET RID OF THAT ANAL EASE SHIT RIGHT NOW! hopefully, congress will make changes to the FDA charter, making it easer for the FDA to ban evil shit like anal ease! the way politics goes in congress... i would not bet on it anytime soon. :sad:
I've used it....but that was back in 2005 and I don't really remember too much about it........she liked Astroglide so we pretty much stuck with that....Read up on it. Find out if you and your partner have any allergies. We've never had any bad experiences with it so I guess that's a good thing. Good luck! *Looks up* Oh wow! Didn't know about any of that.....that's crazy! With that said, you won't miss the few bucks you spent vs what you could possibly chance.....