Will having this 'things' make someone a loser?

Great Advice, You're A Winner Mate....................NOT.!!!



Cheers Glen.

 

i think you're putting the cart before the horse.

 

Go outside, say hi to the neighbours! You have catalogued all that you do ( or don't do) and are obviously aware that you're not happy with this lifestyle so do something. I know there's been some sound advice given here but it's up to you to act on it. You have a job, do you interact with other workmates? You don't have to enter into big conversations on how to save the world or any other shit, just be polite and acknowledge that you're there and aren't really the loser that you obviously think you are.
Good luck!

 

yea you sound like a loser

but this is how you choose to be.

 

nothing on that list would make you a loser. whining on the internet: slightly losery but can still be overcome.

 

i dont think you're a loser, i just think that you are out of touch with the world. i think the internet makes this behavior easy to perpetuate.

i suggest going to a library instead of spending so much time on the computer.

 

modern libraries are just giant computer labs with a small stack of books hidden in the corner anyway...

 

not my local library... it has lots of books and really crappy computers. and you have to sign up for an hour at a time which makes me use my time on them very wisely.

where i'm from libraries are way under-funded...

 

"Loser" is a state of mind.... regardless of what you have. If you must ask whether or not you qualify then you're putting way more stock in other peoples' opinion than is warranted.

Seems like you're assessing your self worth based on what others think... and coming here for answers is a nifty way of avoiding the soul searching you're overdue for. So much of what you've listed will likely change once you change your outlook- and do something about your self esteem.

 

lets just say your not a winner

 

get on the metro or the bus and take a ride somewhere,

 

You've got some good answers here tyxx.
Have no idea what exactly I could add to your list - probably too many things - but wanted to add a thought instead.

Today's society - that your fear being judged by - is one that fails to feed you with visions, yet we need visions more than anything else.

And it would not work ... you have to find within yourself that which feeds you and gives you fire, and do it - even if this means to sit in front of a screen 24/7 (because you're a genius) and not care about fashion (because you don't care).

You are tomorrow's society (well it's almost midnight) - just imagine things are turned all the way round by then and how highly you will be valued as someone who has wonderful things to share; but still more important is to see how highly you value the world you're living in, without big expectations - just with joy. This is how you feed it.

Hope this make sense !

 

I play hardcore amounts of video games, I don't give a fuck. People can think of me how they wish, but my number 1 rule is to always be happy and always win.

 

i say fuck society and other people, if you like where you're at that's all that's important. but if you want to change then well, most of those things you can change if you want to

if you feel depressed then you probably need more of a social network. having people to talk too makes a big difference and can reaffirm you're faith in yourself. i personally don't think your job or if you have a car makes you cool or not. it's all about how you act. you have to find out what you want and enjoy in life and do it! when you know you're being true to yourself other people's opinions don't mean much anymore. besides if they are spending time calling you a loser then it's probably because they are unhappy with their own lives (as perfect as they may seem sometimes) and want to make themselves feel better

good luck

 

Could you please stop turning me on?

 

thank you all for your kind words and responds.