I have a really bad self-confidence, and it's hard for me to trust a guy if a guy tell me that I'm cute, beautiful or whatever I don't take it as a compliment. This weekend I went with my friend and he kissed me I didn't know that he likes me and we went out today too we kissed too. Do you think he likes me? or what ? I just thinking all his friends are beautiful than me that's why I can't trust him he was never like that like flirting wit me that's why I just can't trust him. Sometimes I can be a weak person I hate myself because I am like that. I really need advice what am gonna do to ?
I think it's a pretty safe bet that he likes you. The question is, do you like him? If you do, then pursue it. If not, don't. Don't overthink it.
...if he kisses you in front of his friends I would say there is a chance he means it.... if he ONLY kisses you in private...he is tryin to get laid
I hear you on the compliment thingy. Whenever women show interest in me, I assume they are playing hot and cold games. I frown when women look at me. I hate being complimented. I hate being touched. I think, why don't you go with that guy over there, Isn't that what women like??
i'm with rollingalong. as a big girl, i long came to terms with the concept being the joke "screwing a fat chick is a lotta fun as long as your friends don't see you." i'm sure it goes with just about any sorta chick, skinny, fat, or just plain not his type. so if he's hiding you from his friends, he's not likely to be really into you. but if he doesn't, go ahead and trust that he is.
im exactly like you.. its taken me the better part of 7 months to believe & trust my man when he says im pretty/beautiful/lovely etcetc.. it really used to get me down and upset, and i still have moments where i doubt him slightly, but its gotten better and now i genuinely believe that he likes me, hes not just after sex, and he does like to show me off to his mates
Talk to him about it. But rolling is right if he kisses you only in private hes trying to get laid but if its infront of his friends then he likes you.. I know what you mean about the self confidence. Ive always felt the same way about not believing them.. But when guys say that they usually mean it.. accept it.
oh man, if i had a dollar for every time i had low self-confidence... i've been with my fiance for over a year and still have difficulty believing him when he says i'm beautiful. i just don't see it. but i have at least reconciled with myself knowing that people have different opinions, so if they say i'm beautiful, hey that's their thing. maybe try that tack?
