I've got what u could probly call a porn addiction. I firmly believe that porn is totally wrong and disrespectful but i have really strong urges (like anyone guy does) and just can't help myself. I've tried to stop but it's sooooo hard. I feel sooo ashamed cuz i'm in love with somebody. No offense to anyone who is ok with porn but im not looking for somebody to tell me that there's nothin wrong with porn. I just wanna no how i can stop.
You could start with having some fucking self control. Other than that, get rid of your computer. The first option is recomended.
Lost thoughts gave you the response you asked for. I will give you the one you didn't ask for. Get over your puritan indoctrination against what is quite natural and healthy. Most guys like to look at sexual portrayal and this goes across cultures and across time. There was explicit porn drawings in the 18th Century and almost as immediately as fotografy was invented in the 19th Century there was porn fotos being made. So, I know you asked not to say this, but get over your artificial guilt and enjoy your porn. I did the whole two decades I was married - my wife even shared some with me. It is not cheating any more than having fantasies that don't involve your significan other.
I agree with Shale - there's no reason porn has to be wrong or disrespectful. Those involved are doing so willingly - and while some of it can certainly be plenty depraved, some is absolutely within the confines of fine art. Look at it in a new light - because the urges you have are primal; the circuitry of your very soul. They aren't going anywhere.
There's some beautiful cave drawings in France that you might be interested in. 20,000 year old porn. What? We're supposed to be different?
There's nothing wrong with porn as long as you don't NEED IT while you're having sex to be able to achieve an orgasm.
