ok so im looking for answers lol like the title says. but anyway. Idk if im straight or bi or anything for that matter. I am a male and actually have a girlfriend who i love dearly. But i often find myself sexually attracted to men and often have fantasies of being with other guys. I find kissing another male almost vulgar. it doesnt turn me on at all. When i think about pleasuring another man it instantly turns me on. So am i bi? or just like curious? And i dont know how to tell my girlfriend if i am bi because nobody thinks other of me. everybody has no idea of my feelings. whats up?
Dude If you really do not know wassup, no one else is likely to... But, judging by the few lines you wrote here, you feel like curious-about-to-experiment... This happens to quite a few males in their teens and beyond... So, no need to worry about this at all. I would try to keep the GF out of your experiment ... if you get that far. This is a male thing, and she may not like the sound of it. When you come to think about it, there are some things better left unspoken. Should your experiment however, show that you enjoy "pleasuring" other guys, you want to break the news to your GF. This affects her life, she has every right to know and call her shots, too. KD
'Nuff said KD is right so heed that advice . Just make sure you dont ignore your feelings I did for a while and things got very frustrating just go with the flow but play safe
Im in the same situation. I have a girlfriend for 2 years. I've always like guys, straight guys. I just had to let it be and did not ignore my feelings. I hang out with my straight buddies and once in a while they let me give them oral, but that's it. I'm very satisfied. No love or holding hands with the guys or anything but I love my girlfriend more I think.
