help plz? im a little confused

So I'm 18 year old guy and at 16 i questioned my sexuality alot then just kinda came to the conclusion that I have lots of time of figure it out so i was just gonna let things go and see what happens. I've had some girlfriends that I have had enjoyed sex with but either I've never met the right girl, or having sex with girls just isnt as pleasing as every one of my guy friends puts it. I've had experiences with guys that were a bit awkward but at times it felt right and good.t on days when I'm really horny and only thinking about sexual release, I tend to start noticing guys (although recently they seem to attract me more and more). i know i have lots of time to figure stuff out and Im in the rush, I just wanted to know if anyone else has noticed that they feel stronger gay tendencies when they are horny. I feel a little divided since I usually have eyes only for girls, but it all changes when that drive starts to kick in. is this strange? Any advice would be very much appreciated. thanks guys.
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By the sheer sound of it, you are going thru the expirimentation phase... And, to add to your sense of confusion, there is a degree of situational homosexuality here, too. You want to get your rocks off, and men tend to be more on that wave-length, don't they.

Nope. There is nothing strange about all this.

You have got it totally right. Go with the flow, enjoy your life. You are 18 and there is still plenty of time for you to define yourself.

SC

 

thanks for the advice and yeah the situational thing definitely makes sense, i never even thought about that.

 

man i can relate...i am the same way and am also kinda confuzed...its like rolling the dice to see which sex i will be attracted to because it fluctuates a lot. iv only had one experience with a man and am curently trying to attract a girl to me...so sometimes it gets to me but i havnt worried about it much and dont intend to just nice to know im not alone ya dig?

 

yeah man fo sho. like I pretty much only admire girls and find girls attractive but every once in a while, depending on my mood, I'll start noticing guys too. It's a bit unnerving but w.e. i guess it will all work out

 

unnerving..thats the word. just go with the flow and dont let it get to ya. the world has a way of reavealing truth in time...and thats what will happen

 

I agree completely

 

gotta love the simple things like agreement...they seem to not appear much anymore. too many stupid arguments and violence...i know i got off topic but i was discussing that with a buddy of mine a minuet ago.

 

Fo sho. Its ok it was a good topic therefore i approve

 

haha goody...i just dont see the point in all the death and shit...man the world and people could be so much more...could be so much better and everything could be love and peace...

 

yup. people are just so damn complicated sometimes

 

make things more then they have to be. i hear ya.

 

I think that most poeple at times are attracted to the same sex. Like...I dunno how to explain myself. Damn. Okay---

Like you can have a perfectly straight person see someone walk down the road and they are like damn, I wanna bang their brains out, but I would never wanna be with them in a relatioship or whatever.

Or you can have a gay person that sees the opposite sex walking down the road and they are like...wow...they are hot...but I dont want to have sex with them or a relationship.

Or you can have a bi person, who is open to anything.

Or you can have a freak that just likes sex, no matter who with.


Not defining people, just saying how some people I know think.


Cause its not just about the sex...Like..its about relationships too. Like...could you picture yourself having a relationship with a guy any being with them and having a famil, ect.

 

i see what you mean. that's another interesting perspective i had not thought about. thanks for the reply.

peace