rehab on a relationship?! Advice needed!

about an hour ago my boyfriend of a year left for rehab. i dont know if its because it isnt real yet or what but i dont know how to feel about it. he has to go because of some trouble he got himself into. it's not by choice. and he says that when he gets out hes just going to go back to doing drugs. i do all the same drugs he does only i know my limit. i've been through this before with my dad and our relationship was tense after only now (10 years later)are my dad and i ok. i dont want that to happen with him, i love him and want to marry him but some change in thhat area is needed. i love him and the person he can become if he would relax on the drugs. how can i insure that everything will be ok? advice please.:confused:

 

Tell him how you feel, not us.

 

i cant see him till sunday i guess that should give me enough time to think about what im going to say.

 

He'll have to practically choose between being with you forever and keep doing drugs without limits.
Maybe you can let him know you can be his guide through this.
If he doesn't want to leave drugs then I guess that's his choice, he'll just have to learn how to control himself, maybe you can help him in that area. Help him understand when enough is enough.. that there's a time and place for everything.. and make clear that you're really looking forward for your relationship to work but that he also has to make an effort and try to learn that drugs can destroy people.. and you don't want that to happen to him.

Think clearly.-

 

I'm sorry, m'dear, but as a certified drug counselor I know he has not left you any choice of staying with him. Simple fact: drugs have caused your relationship trouble, he won't quit, he loves the drugs more than he loves you. Your choice: 2nd fiddle to his drugs, finding another guy. Good luck!