I am a whiteguy interested in black/mixed race men

I have been bicurious since I was 19.. Im now23 and never had sex with a man or woman.. i would like to be with a black or mixed race man.. but they never seem to come my way.. at uni I have tryed making freinds with them.. but they never seem to be in my circle or freinds.. or i never seem their type

 

This is just a thought nad may not be worth a damn for anything. If I thought some one was seeking me out solely because of my skin color or some other attribute over which I had no control..it would be a turn off. Like me for who I am not what I am. I have encountered some of this experience myself when living in another country where I was a racial minority. It sort of feels weird, like maybe I was on display at a petting zoo and people were interested in the unusual creature.

That said, if your interest is more about the culture some one comes from it might be more acceptable. I dunno, just a thought.

 

afternoon.. how are you?

I am quite interested in their culture.. and would liike to see whats it like
hope you are all well

 

It would have been nice to know where you're located on this planet and what youre intentions are... Jeffrey Dahlmer was into black guys, and look how that turned out.

 

who was he?

 

google him...a canibal who seduced guys,then killed and ate them...1990's. true story and horrifying

 

I remember when it first happened. Dahmer sometimes visited my city (on Gay Pride Day) looking for victims. VERY HORRIFYING.

--QP

 

I kn0w tell me about it

 

"Birds of a feather flock together" - They say that for a reason.

Making friends is rarely an easy affair. Trying to connect with people who are different, look different and more likely than not tend to flock together is always a bit more complicated, too.

If you go out, you won't see a group of black guys with one white guy in the middle too often. That's a fact of life.

Fortunately, you really do not have to make friends first. When it comes to m2m sex, you can have sex first, see that it works for both of you, and make friends later on. There is all this internet dating going on, so it should be pretty easy for you to connect.

Unless, life throws you in together as in working on the same project, sharing the same accommodation or similar, people will invariably try to find a reason for making friends. Good sex is a very good reason!

KD

 

Yeah, that is a valid concern but nonetheless, ppl do get turned on by certain physical attributes of other ppl.

I'm into chocolate! Love the beauty of smooth brown skin, love to look at it, love to caress it, love to love it. I was lucky and found a freaky woman who loved my thick calves (got it on the brothers there Lots of black women still comment on my good legs.) She told her sister early on "I'm gonna give that white boy some."

Still, I gave some soul-searching about our love and how much her brown skin, soft facial features, Afro-bush and beautiful eyes played in it. We were together for two decades. I believe our love was valid but still, she had that beautiful chocolate brown skin the whole time. IDK.

 

Well, I was especially weirded out by Dahmer - because I was friend's with the sister of one of his victims. In fact, I briefly met him (my friend's brother) about six years before he crossed paths with Dahmer. He came to Chicago on Gay pride day during the early 1990s, and picked up my friend's brother at a bar called Carol's. Then he invited him back to his place, and they took a bus to Milwaukee (where Dahmer lived). After they spent several hours together - Dahmer killed him.

The thing is, Dahmer was not just attracted to African Americans. He liked young (athletic looking) dudes. The reason so many of his victims were black - was because he lived in a neighborhood 0f mostly black folks. So if he ran into a dude he found attractive, he'd invite them over for a drink. Also, he sometimes would offer dudes money to pose for pics. That's how he talked my friend's brother (from Chicago) into coming with him to Milwaukee. I believe he was the next to last victim, and he was Jewish. Also, several of his victims were not gay. Dahmer talked them into coming home with him by offering free beer and/or posing for pics.

The story got a lot of press in Chicago, and that's how I found out I'd briefly met one of the victims (when he was 18). He was a really sweet dude - and it sickened me that Dahmer had snuffed out his life. Plus even though I'd lost touch with his sister - I knew how much she loved her brother, and could not even begin to imagine how awful it all was for her. My heart went out to all the victims families. It really was a horrifying time for many folks.

--QP

 

sounds terrible

 

Lol personally I think its kinda cute, I just so happen to be a light skinned black guy. But for clairification I wasnt talking about the cannible thats horrible