J lube.. slickest stuff we have ever used.. water based, and mixed at home. We have a pump bottle by our bed with it.. Cheap too.
I use System Jo Anal Lube and love it! Heres a link to their site. http://www.systemjo.com/index.php?option=com_virtuemart&page=shop.browse&category_id=107&Itemid=26
Alberto VO5 Hairdressing is the best and easiest to purchase that we have found. It smells pretty good too. Once she is opened up some I dip my index and middle finger in the jar and put a glop of it right up her butt. mmmm, juicy anal sex! Don't use it with a condom though as it contains mineral oil.
My fiancee and I usually use either Olive or Vegitable Oil. Since we are in a commited relationship we don't use protection. Sometimes we use alot (I cannot emphasise this enough) forplay and go dry. Peace Out, Rev J
By far the best oils we have used are Olive Oil but my husband hates.. I mean hates the smell of the oil so I have been buying Grapeseed oil and putting a few drops of either Sensation Oil (youngliving.com) or I make my own blend by combining different essential oils. I only use youngliving oils, I have found them to be the best grade and the most fragrant and beneficial. . and if you use Olive or Grapeseed oil its really good for the skin.
This isn't a smartass response but I have noticed a difference in the skin texture on my penis when we use olive oil. Peace Out, Rev J
You have to just experiment. Everyone has their preferences. Most people seem to prefer either water or silicone based. Silicone base is good for anal because it NEVER dries up but it can be messy and hard to clean up. Water base is much easier to clean but can dry up. Both silicone and water based can be used with condoms. The only thing is that if you have a silicone anal toy you CAN'T use silicone lube it will ruin it. Personally I like oil based lubes when I do anal. I'm married so I don't use condoms during anal, I love oil based. It's smooth and easy with practically no clean up, it just absorbs. I like it because even after I lube my girls ass, I an still eat her out without some weird lube making her taste chemically. Not to mention I love rubbing the oil all over her butt, I don't know why but big shiny buns just look sexy to me. My wife is really sensitive to many of those sex lubes so we stick to just plain organic oil if we use lube usually grape seed, coconut, or olive oil. We have even used organic cocoa butter and shea butter before and they worked beautifully.
One of the tricks I've learned with waterbased lube is to keep a dish of water next to the bed. If you lube dries up put a couple of drops of water on your penis and on her ass and it will reconstitute. You can also spit on it for the same effect. Peace Out, Rev J