Very weird fantasy about my G/F. advice/opinions

i agree with your gf (in regards to the first post)

sometimes a little jealousy from your man where other guys are concerned is reassuring. it makes you feel special, like he loves you and wants you more than anyone in the whole world and couldnt bare to share you.

if my bf was super-amped about this "go out and have sex w/ other guys" idea, id feel cheap and used, not cherished.

 

I agree but I can assure anyone, I love my girl to death. Me wanting her to sleep with other guys is something in my head since we started dating that I cant explain but it does not bother me for some reason. She said the same thing you did about the b/f wanting her to go out with guys and sleeping with them but that thought changed, now she says it looks like fun and experimental since shes never been with anyone else before. If you think about it, she's the one using the guy for sex.
I'm confident enough to share her and she knows I'll always cherish her, as I do cherish her now.

She reacted same as you but changed slowly with time.

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Thanks

 

Hate to bump my own 6 year old thread but I was viewing my own profile and reading my posts (yea I was bored) and wow, I was young and dumb when I posted this thread back when I was 17... still with the same girl going on 8 years, shortly after discovering my fantasy and posting this thread she took the plunge and has been the promiscuous girl I initially posted in the beginning of this thread. We're a couple that has been honest with each other from the beginning which has allowed us to be this open with eachother without jealousy or any threat feelings even if she's dating or sleeping with other guys.

All I did was listen to atropine and several other members who kept calling me an idiot and kept insisting to stop pressuring her into anything. I left it alone and one day she just randomly told me she was ready and wanted to know if I still wanted to see my girlfriend give herself to another guy and if so... was I ready to meet the guy?

So I did and we hung out a few times, that got the ball rolling and from then on it was just her alone with him at his place, it became a normal thing for her to have lovers on the side. We've been very honest with eachother since the day she first started and we're happy with eachother and the lifestyle we live. We intend on getting married once I'm done with school and have settled with a career, we do intend to continue our little activity until its time for the first baby.

I tried to keep the story as short as possible, hopefully I didnt bore anyone but I figured this thread ticked off some people and may have caused a bit of controversy but things have worked out for both of us rather well, she's been happy with her freedom and just throught I'd report to the original thread.

Take care guys

 

Thanks for the update!

Fantastic story, she is very lucky to have you as a boyfriend.

 

interesting.

 

Thanks, not many people would agree with what we're doing so I do appreciate your support.

lol thanks, thats what most people say too

 

I always thought the idea about letting her do other guys was so you could watch or participate? Why let her go off by herself, what do you get out it? Are you able to have other women?

 

To each his own, but having someone you call "your girl" go out and fuck other guys on her own seems odd to me to say the least. When a "normal" person meets someone they like, I think the "normal" feeling you get is that you don't want them to be fucking other people, at least not without you participating.

 

It normally is but doesn't necessarily mean that the bf/husband has to watch although I would love to, she hasnt done much lately but once she gets back into the routine of hanging out with guys she's bringing them home.

To answer your main question; My fantasy, what arouses me most is knowing I have a slutty girlfriend/wife. I just simply get a rush knowing I have a promiscuous partner that doesn't have to hide anything and has the freedom to be a single girl when she's out at the mall, running an errand, or simply out with her girlfriends. I would love to participate in 3somes or simply watch her with someone else but hearing the details the next day is fine with me too.

Yes, you're absolutely right. In the beginning of our relationship I was a very jealous guy but later on became more confident in myself and comfortable with her around guys, especially considering all her friends were guys prior to us getting in the relationship

 

Backdoor_Lady, sorry to re-quote you again but I never answered your question fully. I happened to really get off on seeing her get ready for her dates. I loved those 2-3 hours of seeing her showering, shaving, and seeing her sitting on the vanity counter up close to the mirror in her underwear putting her make up on carefully to look perfect. Then seeing her put lotion on her sexy body and then having her show me countless different cute/sexy outfits asking for suggestions on what to wear. Finally seeing her with the blow drier/curling iron doing her hair to perfection. All that anticipation of seeing her getting all dolled up to know in due time another guy will be enjoying what took my girlfriend 2-3 hours to prepare while I watched.

I also liked the outcome afterward. I loved hearing the details of her date and seeing her come back not quite as dolled up as when she left- hair all wild and sexy, make up not so perfect and sometimes no underwear on at all anymore.

Now time for the update. It has been 2 years since I have updated this thread- originally started in 2004! The relationship has evolved into more extreme stuff after a while but the love and sex is still there After the first 2-3 years of constantly seeing my girlfriend getting all dolled up and sexy to go out with so many guys; it had become a normal routine in our relationship to see her go out on a date, spend the night, the entire weekend, and on a couple occasions go on vacation for a week or two with another guy. I pretty much got used to not having her around all the time. Having gotten used to that, we both wanted something kinkier and definitely riskier. We turned it up a notch and thats when she went all the way and got a boyfriend but not only that, they got their own apartment together.

So around the time that I last updated this thread 2010, my g/f had moved back in with me around April of 2009 after having moved out for over a year to live with her boyfriend who was originally her fuck buddy. We decided to try having her go all the way with one of her fuck buddies who was her regular back in 2007 for a few months and both her and I thought it would be something new to try and let her date him exclusively.

After trying the the whole "full blown" relationship thing, both my gf and I liked the way things were with her being exclusive and living with her boyfriend so after about year of us living together again, we had slowly brought the topic of her having a second boyfriend again and discussed details and rules. We ended agreeing that love could be involved and agreed that she could look for a boyfriend.

By the time I posted my last update here in 2010, she had a regular fuck buddy she would always hang out with whether to have sex or simply hangout and she was always with him. Moving forward to Summer 2010, she told me she had found the guy she wanted to be with and told me it was her current lover (the one I just mentioned above). I approved, she started dating him with my encouragement. That summer, I barely saw her because she was always with him. By late 2010 she told me she was in love him and in love with me. At this point, we both knew it was going to happen and we were both fine with it, he was now her primary boyfriend just like in the previous relationship where I stepped back and let her go all the way with him.

May 2012-she has now been his girlfriend for about two years. A lot has happened since. Oddly enough her family seems to know she's in love with the two of us and we both still get invited to family events, not together though, he'll go to one, I go to another one. Her family seems to approve of her lifestyle and doesn't question it (weird, like the rest of my whole damn story) She is officially his girlfriend but she sees me more than him, tells me she loves me, and has more sex with me than she does with him.

So 8 years later, I've kept this thread somewhat updated.. it all started with wanting to see her go out and date other guys and it has evolved to her developing feelings and settling for one guy (beside myself) instead of jumping from guy to guy as she did for the first 2-3 years of doing this.

I've never really gotten any sort of positive feedback from this forum but I just wanted to tell my story for any of those who actually want to have open relationships or maybe cuckold relationships.

 

So....your relationship with her will reach its peak when you never see her again???

I just don't get it. If you want to be dominated, humiliated and mentally castrated, just get married....

 

lol lets hope not! I'm too young for marriage! but thats a good alternative and quite true too

 

I as well as a lot of men have the same.fantasy. i told my wife about it and she admitted to me that she would love to.watch me with another woman. But we both agreed it wont be with just anyone. We have to "click".

 

yea clicking is good