getting my guy into anal sex

GirlPower, have you met the male ego?

His top two reasons are "It's a dominance thing" which if you mean he doesnt want to dominate you, doesnt really seem to make sense, and that its "an exit not an entrance". And you think these are the main reasons cos he'd tell you otherwise?

Performance anxiety sweety, either he thinks its too tight and worried about only lasting 60 seconds, or worried he aint going to stay hard enough and bend and hurt mid thrashing. May not be the case, but thats what I'd put my money on

 

some guys just arent into it cuz they think its the same as having sex w/ a man

 

There are SOME guys out there who don't like anal. I have a friend of mine that tried it an hated it, I even have some friends that never want to try it for varying reasons. They are not broken, anal is a personal preference.

What ever his reasons may be, you have to respect his decision. I would suggest that you guys try it at least once, and if he still doesn't like it, then just drop it and be happy he will at least use the toys in your ass.

If push comes to shove and you really need cock in the butt that bad, I would suggest you let him know how important to you that you get your ass fucked, you might have to hit break up with him if he won't satisfy you.

It may seem like a small thing to break up over, but sexual frustration is a bitch. I know, I have been in a relationship with a woman who had the most amazing bum. She loved it when I ate her ass, but would never let me stick it in, it drive me nuts, sometimes during doggy style, I swear I would see her ass hole taunting me. Sometimes while doing it from the back, I just wanted to just stick it in her ass without asking, but I could never violate a woman in that way.

When I told her how bad I wanted it she said that we should go our separate ways because she was never gonna let me do it, I respected her decision and things worked out for the better, there are too many fish in the sea honey. There are PLENTY of guys in the world who would love you and tear that ass up until you can't take it anymore, trust me.

If you can deal with not having anal for the rest of your life, then fine, by all means, stay in the relationship, but if you need it, which obviously from this post it seems you need it in the ass, you might need to explore other options, and find a more suitable companion that will satisfy your booty.

 

If I'm not mistaken,isn't that where poop resides?Don't wish to pack my stick with same.Butt,if that's what folks wish to do-git 'er done.

 

yea i had to convince mine to do it and even then it didn't happen often. it'd be sweet to have a chick that wants it in the ass

 

When I was younger, I was dead against anal.
My reason was the dirty factor.

I had a GF who had done it in the past and she wanted me to try it. I refused.

So what did she do? She tricked me lol.

We were both a little drunk and she got on top and rode me, she said she wanted to change positions (cowgirl to Reverse cowgirl) she aimed my dick into her bum and i didnt realy knowtice, After a few minutes I realised how tight and hot it was and I was Hooked.

This might not have been the best way for her to get me to try it but im glad she did. I owe her big time for showing me the pleasure of anal.

 

wow you really have to talk your guy into anal?

damn he's lucky, where can i find more like you?

 

It may seem like a small thing to break up over, but sexual frustration is a bitch. I know, I have been in a relationship with a woman who had the most amazing bum. She loved it when I ate her ass, but would never let me stick it in, it drive me nuts, sometimes during doggy style, I swear I would see her ass hole taunting me. Sometimes while doing it from the back, I just wanted to just stick it in her ass without asking, but I could never violate a woman in that way.

HA! That's funny and true.
Been there brutha.

My experience is that some women just don't like anal, no how, no way.
But the majority do like it, especially when the introduction is gentle.

 

I don't like anal. It doesn't feel anywhere near as good as sticking it in a tight pussy. Plus the whole shit thing is gross.

 

I think my girl just might succeed in talking me into it this weekend.

 

tell him to grow up! They'll be a line of men waiting to go balls deep in your ass if he don't step up.

 

Wow, if this is a genuine post, it's a one of a kind. this is the one time (since you're not married) where I'd tell the GF to go ditch the guy and find another guy who is into that as there are a lot out there...

 

old g/f started with fingering my ass as she sucked me, went from there.

 

Not sure why this got bumped, it's a few years old now. Got me thinking though; when the thread is about a man trying to get his girlfriend to do things, a slew of people show up to berate him and tell him to 'leave her alone' and she shouldn't be coerced or forced into doing anything she doesn't want to do (obviously). But in this instance, when it's a woman starting the thread... the guy still gets shit on and she gets the exact opposite advice.

 

Reminds me of my shameful days at Cal, when the femi-nazis were dominating all aspects of life on campus. If you didn't support women's rights, you were ostracized and your chances of getting laid diminished. Looking back, I regret betraying myself and being a staunch feminist, supporting various women's issues (e.g., pro-murder, the objectification of women, sexual harassment, etc.) while being completely oblivious to the exact, pathetic motivation why I supported such ridiculous and shameful causes: getting laid. Believe me, living in such a radical environment during the height of one's erectile frequencies will easily alter a young man's psyche and character for the ultimate purpose of penetrating an elusive orifice--in my case, a female colleague's nice, tight asshole. There were a lot of girls back in my college days I wanted to sodomize, but to achieve that I had to side with the radical issues they supported. I feigned it in my freshmen year, but there was an embarrassing time during my sophomore and junior years when I was so consumed with the ideologies that I actually believed in it. I did whatever it took to get me laid, but there came a point when I was not being true to myself and I was on the brink of depression after being so sensitive and pussy-whipped to the whims of feminists that I finally broke free and gathered the strength finally to tell the feminists to fuck off. Free at last, free at last! Thank God almighty, I was free at last!

 

C/S,
Rev J