This is the weirdest dream by far about a different girl then what's in my other dream topic. It's the first dream I've ever had about this girl. There's a lot to read here, so here goes. "The dream starts with me and a girl(that I haven't seen in about 6 years) walking out of college and we are talking like friends do. My ride's not out there so me and her just start walking through the parking lot just for the fun of it. And the entire time me and this girl are talking and she stops to say "I always thought you were fat and creepy" so I stop and look at her, I smiled and said "I've always known that" she just smiles at me. So we continue walking down the parking lot and talking. A few mintues later she takes off running to some car parked in the parking lot and she slips and falls between two parked cars. She gets up and she has a whole in her right pants leg. I yell "Are you alright?", she looks at me cause she didn't hear me, so I yell out again "You alright?". Instead of replying back she just smiles at me, so I smile back. We continue walking down the parking lot, we get to car a few cars down and we stop. I looked in the mirror on the door on the car then I opened my phone up and called my ride, but I got no answer. She's standing behind me smiling, So I call again, and again it went straight to the voice mail. I put the phone away and look out at the trees and the moon behind the cars, just staring. I turn around and she runs up to me and I fall and we both land on the trunk of the car behind me. So I'm laying on back on the trunk ans she's on top of me right, well she kisses me on the lips and well...we start making out." And I know you want a little background info to maybe understand the dream so here you go. The girl in that dream was close with me before she moved, we use to be neighbors for about 13. I've known since we were kids. Why you ask? Because me and her little brother use to be best friends(even though he was 5 years younger then me) and over time me and her became friends. As we got older I didn't want to talk to her a lot because I didn't want to give the impression to her brother then I might like her, because he would of said something to her and probably messed stuff up. And even though if I didn't talk to her, she would always talk to me whenever she saw me, whether it was in school, in town, at her work or even if she seen me around the neighborhood she always said hi to me. She always took up me if anybody picked on me, odd I know but she did it. But me, her and her brother stopped talking when they moved in 2005 in our senior year in high school. They moved to the other side of the county, but they also they had there classes changed. So I rarely saw him and her, but she talked me whenever she saw me in the hallways in school. After high school I lost touch with them. Until I seen them on myspace a few years ago, but even though both him and her are on my friends list on there I only talked to him a few times, and I haven't talked to her yet, let alone know if she even gets on.
wow, that's quite some dream! I've tried to do an extensive interpretation here, because it seems to me that this is a very important dream. But remember that you are the only one that can ever really understand your own dreams. I see that the dream shows you different possibilities, different paths of life, that you could choose. The parking lot is the point of rest (the present). You've lost your own car, the car you arrived with. So you must focus on the future. Every car on the parking lot represents a possible way out of the present, a possible future path of your life. Therefore it would be even more helpful if you could remember what the cars looked like. Especially the ones you came close to choosing. I don't think the girl represents herself. As I understand she was one of the first persons for whom you had very deep (romantic) feelings, so she probably represents the part of you longing for love and happiness. She might even represent the other girl you still have a crush on, but only you can know/decide that (and as I said earlier: don't count on it). At first she makes an ugly remark to you (fat & creepy), but you take that and even say she is right. That points to a clear lack of self-confidence and probably even guilt. Then she runs away from you. So that guilt and lack of self-confidence inside you, will only make sure that love and happiness in life will run away from you. Furthermore, the love within yourself will find many obstacles on its way (falling) and because of that won't be able to join you in the future as it is clearly impaired (hole in the leg, can't walk with you on the path of life). But there is also another option, which the dream clearly shows. You (and your love) walk up to another car. You look in the mirror of the car. Mirrors are always very important in dreams. They represent your inner self, your subconcious, your soul. You look at it, so this means you try to look at your inner self, reflect your own life (did you see anything in that mirror?). Then you try to call someone. This again represents that you try to contact the inner part of yourself, your subconcious, your soul. But it doesn't work, even though you try two times. Then you stare at the moon and the trees. Trees represent our ability to grow. They are rooted in the ground, but reach for the sky. And the moon once again represents your spiritual side, your subconcious, your soul. It was a full moon I guess? You stare at it for a while, so the dream wants you to look at it. The dream wants you to see your own potential (trees) and your inner self (moon). If you do that, then love will come running to you instead of away from you. And you will reunite, both with the love within you that you've just found, and with your new path of life (the car, what did it look like?). Because you find yourself making out with 'love' on top of your new car. Congratulations! So, the choice is yours. Do you let guilt and a lack of self-confidence take over your life and scare away your chance for love and happiness in life? Or will you look deep inside yourself to find that you have more abilities to grow then you might think. With that attitude love and happiness will come running to you before you know it.
Just one correction, in the dream I didn't say I knew I was fat and ugly, I was just saying that I've always known that she felt that way about me. That's what I've meant by it. No don't remember any of the cars, expect the ones she fell between. Which a small 4 door car and an black/brown suv. I don't know the models of them. And it was a full moon like you guessed, and the mirror well I don't recall seeing anything in it when I looked. And reunite with the love within me that I've just found? And how did I just find love by making out with love? I'm not to sure why congratulating me, but ok I think. I'm kinda puzzled, why would a dream have a girl that you've completely forgotten about represent the girl I still have a crush on? I know you said only I can know/decide that, but I still want to know why though. Well that is an interesting choice your presenting me with. Of course I want to look deep inside myself. Coming running to me before I know it, eh?
Ok, that points more to a lack of self-confidence, then to guilt. Not even the last car? The one where you looked into the mirror and fell on while making out eventually? I guess that would be the most important one. The fact that she fell between two cars in the first scenario (instead of on the car, as was the case in the second scenario) also represents that she (love & happiness) won't be able to join you on your lifepath in the future. That you didn't see anything in the mirror doesn't surprise me. You were not able to make contact with your inner self through the mirror or through the phone. But you managed by looking at the trees and the moon. As I said, the trees stand for life and potential to grow. You need to see the potential to grow (spiritually and mentally) within yourself to be able to make contact with your inner self. Seeing the potential within yourself, as you may notice, is the exact opposite of the first scenario. This means self-confidence. You know that you (like the trees) can reach the sky if you want. There are no obstacles. Well, I think that the girl represents the love and happiness within yourself. It is not some love that is to be found somewhere outside. It is already part of you, like it is part of anyone. In the second scenario you make out with her on the car. The car represents your future lifepath, the girl represents the love and happiness inside you. So you will be happy and feel love(d) in the future. I think that is reason enough to be happy about or to congratulate for. This opposes the first scenario, where the girl ran away from you, fell on the ground between two cars. Whichever car you choose, she won't be able to join you because she fell and had a hole in her leg. This doesn't mean that love and happiness will dissappear totally, but the dream points out that the lack of self-confidence is an obstacle for the love within you to flourish. And if you are not careful you might never experience true happiness because of it. Well, that is a difficult one. Personally I think the girl represented the love within you. But as you still have a big crush on this other girl (I don't know how big, but you can answer that for yourself) the love inside you is focused towards this other girl at the moment. That's why I think it might be possible that she is the one being represented, although I think not. But it's your dream and your crush, so only you can decide. That is what some dreams tend to do (especially the important ones), presenting us with choices about how we can lead our lives. I think the main point is that you need to work on your self-confidence (trees) to be able to feel your inner self. In my experience it is true that a positive attitude will generate more positive events (if only because you learnt to deal with things in a positive way) and self-confidence is very important if you want to accomplish things. If you don't believe you can do something in the first place you won't be able to do them only because of that. In short (this is quite extreme, but believing it helps a lot in life) I think there is no fact or fiction, there are only possibilities for those who want to see them (trees!) and imagined obstacles for those who put them up for themselves. A positive attitude does wonders. And if you can come into contact with your inner self, your soul, you will be able to follow it. Just follow your intuition. And then love and happiness will automatically follow, in whichever form. Life probably will surprise you one way or the other. Just let it happen, don't be afraid, have confidence and follow your hart. I think that is what the dream is trying to say to you. It is a very interesting one, because it has a lot of aspects in it. And it might be an important one that you will still remember many years from now.
Nope not even the last one. But why would that be significant? That's not a good thing is it? Yeah, I see what you mean by that. So your saying that even though I know I'm lacking the self-confidence, I know that deep down I can do something? I agree about being happy about the fact that I get to feel love(d) in the future, but isn't it also a reason to feel bad because a lack of self-confidence might end the happiness that I've wanted? Because it seems like if I don't change, then I might miss out on something wonderful. Which girl are saying the love inside is focused towards? The girl I have the big crush on or the girl that's my old friend? Because I really couldn't tell from the way you wrote it. And at first I thought the girl didn't represent anything other then the girl that's my old friend, but after thinking about it for a bit I've gut puzzled. Reason I thought that at first is because at this point I've forgotten all about her, what she looked like, sounded like(because she had a unique accent) and that she even existed until this dream. And after you started mentioning that it might represent the girl I have a crush it got me more puzzled. I can kinda see why she(my crush) would be represented in the dream but I also wondered why would my subconscious have her(my old friend) represent the love inside me if I have completely erased her from my memory? But shouldn't there be a reason why she showed up in my dream and not my crush? I mean I did erase this girl(my old friend) from memory after all. I know I need work on my self-confindence a lot (my trees are dying!), it's been a problem of mine. But It will get better, at least I'm hoping. Follow my heart, that's what my friend always says. And that's what I've been trying to do. And if I can remember the kissing dream from a year ago, then I'm bound to remember this kissing dream years from now. This dream has had me messed up inside all day.
Because what the car looks like signifies your future life path. But then again, I think that if you don't remember it, it was not important. The important thing probably was tha fact that you kissed the girl on the car. But even if you only could remember the color of that car it would be of interest. Red would be plausible I think. No, because you can't know that you lack the self-confidence, that is just the whole point of it. You think that you lack the self-confidence, and because of that you do lack the self-confidence. You put obstacles in your own path that aren't really there. The trees show you clearly that you do have the self-confidence and all the potential to grow right there within you. You don't even need to look very far. Recognising that will help you find your inner self (the moon) that you can't reach right now (mirror/phone). Well here the same story applies all over again. If you let the fear that you might miss out on something wonderful (which is true, you might but that is entirely up to you) take over you actually ensure that you will miss out on that because of that fear. The dream however shows you that if you look at all the trees within you (they are not dying, they are only hiding down there, waiting for the moment that you will let them grow) you might just find something wonderful there. Don't feel bad, there is a reason that the dream showed you the 'bad' scenario first and the 'good' scenario second. Now you will remember the second better and you got to end this dream with a very good feeling. This gives you more power. The dream points out: 'This is the situation (lack of self-confidence), which could lead to that (no happiness in life); The problem is this (no contact with your inner self), you can change that (be more confident of your own abilities), and then it could lead to this (love and happiness in life).' This actually is a good message, because it shows you the power within yourself that you weren't conciously aware of. The way you react to this dream also reflects your lack of self-confidence I think. You immediately focus on the negative aspects, and are very doubtful on the positive ones, while the dream actually focuses on the positive aspects. You need to learn that, although you can't control everything (or actually anything) that happens in life, you do have the power to control the way you handle it. This dream is a very good one, especially because it showed your weaknesses and showed you how to turn it positive. You have the power to see this dream as a positive one, just like you have the power to look at anything in a positive way. There begins the growth of your trees, because if you look at life in a positive way, you must acknowledge that everything is possible and that there are a lot of possibilities and chances out there waiting for you to be discovered. The girl you have a crush on now. Because as you said, you have (conciously) totally forgotten about the other girl. But try to look at it this way: Your subconcious must find a way to represent the ultimate feeling of love and happiness there is inside of you. How would you represent it? With the girl you have a crush on now? No! Because, that situation is way to complicated for you to let those feelings out. But this other girl that you have forgotten about, was perhaps the one that, more than any other person you've met, let you feel ultimate happiness and love inside, and your subconcious still knows it. That's why she is the ideal representation of happiness and love for you. I suggest that you focus more on the self-confidence part, which is much more important to you now. There lies the choice for you. That is one thing that you do have power over. You couldn't stop the girl running away from you and falling in your dream, just as you couldn't stop her running to you and kissing you. You don't have power over events in your life, only over the way you handle them. And the dream shows that if you handle them powerful in a positive, confident way, happiness and love will automatically join you (you don't have to do anything for it). I know it will. This dream showed you the power within you, so you can do it. It would have been much worse if the dream only showed you the bad scenario.
