bi woman in open mf relationship, need help meeting women!

I'm pretty sure this topic has been addressed here but I figured I would post anyway....

I am a bisexual woman engaged to a man whom I love very very much. He is my soul mate... I have no doubts about that. Luckily, my fiancee is very turned on by my bisexuality and encourages me to meet women. He would prefer a threesome (obviously, who wouldn't) but is nonetheless, he is incredibly turned on by me being with women with or without him. He makes this both easy and difficult for me because I am TERRIFIED of approaching women.

We had a threesome once with a girl we met out one night. This was one of my first real experiences sleeping with a woman since acknowledging my bisexuality. We were all really out of it by the time the subject of a threesome was discussed and neither of us remember exactly what HE said to her to convince her to come home with us. I am too scared to talk to women. Trust me, I really want to ... but every time I try I end up just scaring them away...

I am craving another woman, badly... and he can't wait for me to be with one, but this process (as it has become) is frustrating us both. We thought using the internet to meet girls would be easier for me since I am so nervous and awkward in person, but have only come to realize that the only people who are for real on these sites are total freaks.

Does anyone have any advice about how I can pick up girls with my particular situation without looking like a creepster or a sexual predator? Any and all advice is welcome... Thank you all in advance!

xox
L

 

I know why you wouldn't want to marry a man, we're yucky, I hate men too.

Call me

 

Sounds exactly like me RIGHT NOW!! It's so frustrating!
I'm not sure I'm exactly interested in a threesome so much, but wouldn't be 100% opposed.
I just recently got turned down by a woman because I'm not a lesbian/single bi chick.
Anyway, don't give up hope. Just be patient and keep trying.

Good luck to you.