Sick of this shit!

Friends dont do that, they may kid around with you, but that should be as far as they go, freinds should know there boundarys.


These arent freinds, they're assholes, and the next time one of them does shit like that to you, beat the living shit out of them. Then they should stop treating you like a peice of shit.


But really you need to find better friends, a couple good ones, instead of a group.

I've had the same best friends since the 3rd grade and the other from kindergarden.

 

It sounds like you need to start prioritizing who your real friends are.

I have a couple of "real" friends, friends I know that will back me up no matter what, sure we joke around with each other, but we dont put each other down to make one feel like a better person.



ps: next time they make a gay joke, be like "what is it with you guys always saying im gay? i know you would probably really enjoy it alot, but im not, sorry" i bet they wont have shit to say.....

 

just as long as any of them and one of them just moved here 2 years ago and yeah i guess i'll give it a try.

 

best piece of advice on this fuckin website

 

Yeah, but if you confront them verbally... don't sounds like your whining. They'll just rip on you even worse if you get emotional about it.

 

That advice is the best your going to get, IMO.

Some kids are just douchebags, and they use you for entertainment and the butt of al jokes so THEY will look cool. The fact they dont pick on you when your alone proves how fake these kids are. If anybody was picking on somebody as much as you, i would make sure to step in. I cant stand it. Sorry man, best of wishes.

 

thanks everyone i'll deffinetly let them know that i'm sick of it and if they still do it and i'm just going to like stop answering their calls and shit.

 

LOL :smilielol5:ie:

 

Next time they say something about sucking dick, ask them what's wrong with sucking dick.

No wait that probably won't help your cause especially with 16 year olds.

Honestly your friends just sound like normal asshole 16 year olds who need someone to annoy and you've become that person by not doing anything about it.

 

i try to do something about it but they just laugh at what i do about it.

 

Definitely do this. Do something exciting and productive in your life. This will be it. Get in your first fight and 1. get your ass beat, but still have respect of not being a bitch. 2. kick their ass and feel very happy they wont be calling you names anymore. 3. mix up your day and friends. Some of my better friends are friends I've fought with. 4. Have some sort of story that is truthfully interesting this month

 

@MadcapSyd and i'm not saying there is anything wrong with gay people if that's what you were trying to get at.

 

dump them sweetie. they have no love for you, they giveth not a shit about your feelings, they ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. all relationships should be reciprocal, and they are being abusive. the problem with dumping friends is that they dont always take the hint. even after years of being ignored, and the only way to clarify is to actually say "i no longer consider you a friend." change your online passwords to something obscure, and just stop hanging out with them. they are not worth it. really.

i was a junior in high school when i decided i really (truthfully) did not give a flying fuck what anybody thought of me. i started making my own clothes, and wearing them to school, the hardest part of course. fake fur overalls, fleece rainbow overalls, and so many other odd pieces that it would take too long to list. the jocks and gangbangers thought i was bonko, but i didnt care. the smokers thought i was weird but groovy, and mostly left me alone, but they showed an interest in my skills. i used to make stuff for people who were nice to me. but all in all i was never popular, and i never fit in, but i turned out ok. i was a triangular peg that said fuck all you squares trying to fit in a round hole.
accept that you dont fit it, rejoice in it, and find some other oddly shaped pegs. i feel i am better off for it. most of the people i come to for advice are on here. lots of odd pegs here

i do not advocate violence, only because it shows less maturity than breaking off the relationship (a friendship IS a relationship, and should be treated as such) in a grown up way. they do not love you, even as i love you, and i have never met you. you should always strive to surround yourself with love, in its many facets. what does it say that someone whos never smoked a bowl with you, never seen your face, cares more for your well being than the people posing as your friends?
seek love dear, it is the sweetest emotion.

 

I'm going to be honest even if i wanted to fight them I wouldn't have the nuts.

 

Fake it, it's easy. people lie to themselves all the time. fake macho till it comes naturally. lol

 

I love pie

 

it's just hard for me because I hang out with them everyday and i don't think they know they're doing anything wrong i'm not really a social person that'll go out and make new friends anytime soon.

 

No I was saying you should say that but then I thought about it and with 16 year olds the humor is just not going to work.

 

OP, you need to tell your friends to fuck off. seriously say it. you have total control in this situation and you need to take it. tell them you are sick of their shit and to fuck off.

trust me, it's worth it. you'll be thanking yourself years later


be a bigger man and don't start a fight with them. that would be stooping to their level.

 

if they don't know they are doing wrong by you, thats even worse. suburban kids have failure parents, who never bother to teach them how to treat others with decency.

if you had a girlfriend that you treated the way they treat you, would you expect her to stay? only if shes always been abused that way, and knows no better. you are letting them make you feel bad, and you don't deserve that. its hard to end a relationship, and friendships are among the hardest to end, but they are not bringing goodness into your life, they are dragging you down and laughing about it.

as far as making new friends, yeah, its tough. but you do have friends here to lend you support while you find new local friends. pick up a new hobby (i like textiles myself, and i will say there is something kinda sexy about a guy who can knit or sew) and delve in. learn to cook like a champ, make stuff out of wood, whatever. give yourself something that produces results. theres nothing like standing back and seeing your work. you will find like minded people, people interested in the same things, people who care that you are happy.
im not much of a social person either. thats part of why i love the internet, it is my social life. Ravelry gives me patterns, the SL gives me potheads, facebook gives me guilt trips from my family (who i also dont socialize with) and more than anything else, gives me the information i crave. survival skills, home crafts, homesteading, house building, everything online and at your fingertips. what are you interested in?

the teenage years are when you establish though paths in your brain. if you do not use the paths now they will fade, and be harder to forge anew in the future. the best thing you can do is learn everything you can about everything you can while those connections are all fresh and strong. it will help you later, and really school is crappy preparation for real life anyway. if you want to come out of school ahead then you have to take the initiative.

friends will come to you. just be nice to others. be confident of your self worth, and cast out those things that do not make you happy or further your life skills (school sucks, but it is easier to get a job with a diploma than a ged)
you will be happier in your own company than in the company of those who drag you down at every opportunity. you can rise above