hey... i m 20...still virgin. i was a frequent masturbator.till now in masturbation i never encountered any sexual problem.(except premature ejaculation somtimes only). but recently i visited to prostitute.....i wondered i was jerking off my dick without erectin. it takes 15 min. jerking off.finally i gave up. i left without orgasm. though i was scared of visiting red light area. tht night when i came bak home...whenever i close my eyes thinkin abt prostitute my dick gets erection immidiately.& on same day i masturbated 3 times. m confused..wht to do...plz help.do i need doctor. i dun kno any sexologist in my city.
You have a classic case of "performance anxiety", which all guys suffer from at some time. It was compounded by the fact that it was your first time having sex with another human being, and further by the fact that it was a prostitute. We all screw with our brains and not our penises, and in your case, your brain shut off. Don't worry about it. Just relax, and try to have sex next time with someone you care about.
this is really weird situation. I wonder if the problem is real since the user only has 1 post and no answer-.
his join date is listed as march 2010... i doubt he would of gone on a posting frenzy in 5 days.... I agree with the first answer though. You where nervous about having sex and also having sex with a prostitue, cut yourself some slack.
LOL i think it's because it's your first time so you didn't know what to do, try to visit there again and observe your self
Escorts/prostitutes are good practise. Last year was the first time I paid for an escort/prostitute and I did have difficulty cumming as well, although I was drunk so maybe that was it also but I generally think when you have sex with someone you've wanted to make love to or fuck you are more, anxious. With an escort I felt beyond relaxed, and frankly the sex lost a lot of its appeal. I still got hard but just didn't get orgasm, I think it just plays into the "heat of the moment" notion.
Perhaps you weren't so stressed if you didn't go to a prostitute Sorry but I really don't like this idea. There are so many good an nice girls in this world that you can enjoy life with them. Just try to find the right woman and you will see how pleasant is making love with a loving person...:sunny:
I share the opinion that for the first time it was very stressed for you, so I think not to worry so much ... some people don't experienced orgasm in the late 40 .... So just chill up and be yourself !
