how soon is too soon?

so the american boy broke up with me 4 months ago-
devistated and angry i slept with someone 2 weeks later (stupid-yes)
he found out yesterday and is devistated and now it seems i am painted as the whore of babylon. hmm.
how soon is too soon? if your ex boyf/girlf slept with another after the break up- would you be okay?
proper bs.

 

It wouldn't be too soon even if you slept with that other guy one day after the break-up.

And wtf, you're not a whore. He broke up with you. THEN you hooked up with someone else. Its all very clear.

 

Yep

 

Hello,

isn't breaking up equivalent to abandon made commitments? It might hurt one way or the other, but that's the way it is. Regarding the moral question I don't see a problem there. If your new 'adventure' had started after breaking up I would be fine with it. Again, it might hurt.

Regards
Gyro

 

Sometimes it can help you to have sex with someone after a breakup.

 

you know- i did it for the obvious hurt bullshit reasons- revenge- self harm- rebound- dark space fuck the pain away- it didnt solve anything. the worst part? i loved him completely- lost all dignity in begging for the boy back- would take him back tomorrow- worst part is knowing he still loves me and that ive hurt him completely- lets say it went beyond just breaking up and moving on because we were/are so close. this sounds like such a sap story- i guess the guilt is kicking in hard- im not someone who gives up there body for anyone

thank you pets for the comments

 

i consider you do be available to do whatever the hell you want immediately after the break up. he dumped you then got pissed you got laid first. he's just mad 'cause he didn't. fuck that noise. and anyone who thinks you're wrong is an asshole.

 

Your ex sounds like a whiney little bitch. Tell that chump "you broke up with me, it's none of your fucking business what I do"

Then tell him if he doesn't back the fuck off you'll import a real american to kick his ass.

I work for pot and love... and food.

 

Listen to this chika.

 

it's certainly your choice to engage in whatever you decide to, but either way will most likely always hurt the person you just shared a close relationship with. one reason I turn to drugs after a hard breakup, rather than other women

 

He broke up with you for a reason, just like you slept with someone for a reason and if he doesn't see through you then he's just a sore ass. I really don't understand why you're feeling guilty, hun. He broke up with you so why the hell can't you sleep with someone? If he is pissed from that, then maybe he shouldn't have broken up with you!! Don't feel guilty. If you just feel like you lost him, be open for getting back together with him, you don't need to beg cuz it's his problem not yours, and if he isn't open for getting back together, then ya gotta start movin on.
Good luck

 

The dude's an idiot. Fuck him.

 

Anything less than 72 hours would make you a whore. You're in luck.

 

Too soon to hook up after a breakup? One minute's still fine... impressive even.

You don't owe an ex an explanation for who you sleep with. You don't need to feel guilty, and if you didn't like the guy that you hooked up with, forget about him and move on with your life.

 

How soon is too soon? Before an invitation.

 

my opinion is/

did you only know the second guy for 2 weeks = whore

 

2 weeks is too soon for sex?

 

What if she was a dude who slept with a chick less than two weeks after meeting? Nothing wrong with the occasional one-night stand.

 

that depends on whether or not you are a whore :coffee:

 

the old bf is right. you're nothing short of a whore. you should get used to it.