Hey guys im a first time poster on these forums and not really sure how to start. basically, im 15 and a soccer finatic. i have always loved the game but when i hit puberty i ran into problems. i cant take a shower after practice or game cuz i get a HUGE boner. when i get home i go straight to my room and play with my dick. i think about all my teamates and there naked bodies. i dont think im gay, just curious. my question is how do i keep from poppin a boner in the shower? and how can i find out if any of my teamates are interested in trying somethin? thanks
A guy who wants to keep everything down below quiet is supposed to think about football. In your case this might make it worse! Find something neutral that interests you and think about it. Dive into its details. Take it apart in your mind. Do not think about anything or anyone around you. This is a skill you will need your entire life. Nature throws attractive people and titillating situations at you without warning. Part two of your question will need the advice of another.
deep breaths, think of a chair. any chair. a wooden chair perhaps in an empty room. there is a chair. there is a grandma is sitting on the chair. have her turn into an evil demon trying to eat your flesh. anything really, a grandma and a chair usually puts me off. Seriously tho, as for finding out if teammates are into anything, try not to think about it and just bide your time. its a very hard thing to find out i think. You dont want to alienate any of them by seeming like you want something they dont. Just wait and see how things pan out and let your instincts decide when it might be the right time to make a certain comment or ask a certain question as a hint... Try not to let these feelings control how you behave, just be yourself and be their teammate, and see what happens in time. I dont think theres an easy course of action in this situation. Certainly doesn't mean you are gay, or even bi, just growing up asking yourself questions like everyone else does. Give it time and see how your feelings develop.
A good trick that you could try is drinking a lot of water or something and then holding it when you need to go to the bathroom. Having to pee makes it more difficult to get physically aroused (not to mention the fact that the feeling is distracting). Of course, it's a little uncomfortable, but it has worked for me in times when I needed to either hide my physical attraction or just prevent an erection.
Thx for the help everyboy. if u dont mind me askin: have u ever done something with a male friend/teammate? was it awkward after and could u still be friends? and most importantly... how did u make sure the other person kept it a secret?
You have several years of school ahead of you. I doubt many your age have become enlightened in the last few decades. No, I never had the desire. Yes, every school has a few who do. Let it be known to the wrong one and the next three years of your life could feel like twenty.
masturbate before practice. disregarding morning wood of course, which tends to stick around until the day's first pee...
