Help Me Plan Out My Life

The sad part about that though is the fact that the ocean is a very big attraction of the whole thing, and the redwoods are pretty neat too.

Someone's gonna have to lower their standards, it looks like.

Another thing that worries me about this though is the possibility of getting a job once I move somewhere. Because if that turns out to be very difficult, money is going to run out quickly and then I'm going to be in trouble.

 

just follow your fucking intuition man. let it guide you. in my opinion, don't get too mindey about it. stick with what's real for you RIGHT NOW. If it's the love for this girl, then just stay with that for as long as it lasts. Don't get too caught up in planning. It's an endless illusion.

 

Yeah. That's turning out to be more and more true every day.

 

And it will only become more apparent.

Don't try to plan too hard indeed... you're likely to see your gleaming little plan fall to pieces. Life is fragile, so enjoy it with your current means and don't plan for much beyond what looks like your best options right now. And by best I don't mean financially... I mean for you to head in the direction that will make you feel like the most complete person. Even if that means scraping by working in a record store for minimum wage, do what makes you happy.

 

i mean i'm not saying don't do it. just don't get too caught up in your mind's idea of how everything is going to turn out. Even if it does turn out the way your mind makes it out to be, you'll have 100 more things to plan about once you get to that point. so just don't let it stress you out. be playful about the planning aspect.

the sweetness and beauty of it is that it never turns out how you expect it. so just run with what's working for you now. fuck her soul out while you still got her.

 

china cat speaks a lot of things that resonate

 

See, I like what you both have to say. And that's how things have gone in the past. We've made plans, but we just sorta set them out as a general thing and then let life take it's course. I guess what we did was set a destination in hopes that we'd have an unforgettable journey. Neither of us have any problems with changing the final endpoint, so don't get that idea.

 

wiseman, you need to just grow some balls and make some decisions. that bitch can take it or leave it

 

Haha. Did you read the post? None of this is about her disagreeing on something or whatever. It's just me trying to formulate some kind of plan for the future.

I grew some balls one time. Sadly, I was forced to sell them at rock-bottom prices so I could buy weed.

 

I tried to read it, but quite frankly would have had to snort some adderall to do so. let me ask you before this goes further: what drugs are you on? prescribed, illegal, over the counter.. everything

 

that doesn't sound pleasant.

 

hahahaha wtf man