Hi guys, if I like a girl and want to start off conversation what message should I start with. I will usually write Hi or Hi 'Girls Name'. Is that ok, or something better you can advice me
The first thing you should do is assure her you're a safe, normal guy. The best way to do this is say: "Hey, I'm not a serial killer or stalker, and certainly not both. What's up?" Alternatively, some girls prefer details: "Hi [Girl's name], I'd never slip you a roofie and take advantage of you. How goes it?"
It's simple enough, you say something to the effect of "hey what's up?" and talk about safe topics like music, movies, and stuff like that. DO NOT start talking about sex related matters unless you know absolutely sure that's what she wants to talk about as well. I wouldn't even compliment on her looks right away, but that's just me. Just be casual, friendly, make sure she knows your main focus is actually getting to know her as a person rather than simply getting into her pants, and you should be fine.... I think? lol
Starting a conversation with a girl you like online is very dangerous territory. I wouldn't recommend it at all, but if you choose to go that route, Alternative_Thinker's advice is good.
hmmm... well apparently this girl added me, pretty hot she is and has like 425 male friends and people hitting her on comments so I wrote this as starter... "I feel sorry for all your male friends on this site" as in trying to say that they all must have added her by sending requests so like if sh says why? then I will be like "well then know you like me" or something along the line I m only guessing she likes because y wud a girl send me a request when she is getting so many request and comments on pics. What do you guys say? "
I don't know dude I have never successfully woohed a girl in my life because of a bit of asocial / neuroses / shyness / disinterest in girls I know... but that seems a little too forward. but hey, whatever, I'm probably wrong.
I would have just said something like "hey, thanks for adding me!" Then maybe to promote a conversation, I would have added, "how are you?" The whole "I feel sorry for the other guys...because they know you like me" thing can be tricky because that spoken(or typed? lol) in a serious tone could give one an impression you're being a bit creepy. IF I were to say something like that, then I would have made it sound comical, and also exaggerated it, punctuating the sentence(or sentences) with "rofl " Would be something like "Awwww, you must really like me! I think the other guys are going to be all jealous now, mwahahahaha! jk jk.... So how are you? lol " At least that's the kind of approach I would take, anyway.
