I don't believe he really loves me.

So I have been off and on with this guy for a year now.
He tells me he loves me, but actions speak louder then words, right?
He has lied to me multiple times, he has cheated on me, it's hard to believe he truely loves me. I have forgiven him every time though.

Now, he is saying he wants to be with me again, but wants to wait until summer. Which is almost 4 months away.

He is my best friend, and I Love him with all I have, but I just don't think I should wait around again.

Can I get some peoples opinions on this situation?

 

I don't know if he truly loves you or not but since he's lied and cheated on you in the past, he'll probably do it again.

 

Does not sound like love to me but a guy that has you wrapped around his finger. Have you seen any other guys when you have been apart?

 

My opinion: You don't really need to ask us - the answer should be pretty obvious. I wish you well.

 

He's a loser and you know it, but are looking to a forum of strangers to absolve you of the guilt you feel for shutting down his advances.

Welp, you have full absolution. He sounds like he's just throwing words around with no substance, and you shouldn't waste time hoping he'll change.

 

Agree with others. You make it easy for him in a way as you always take him back regardless of his cheating or him imposing silly 4 months deadlines (for what, so that he can go test the grounds elsewhere in case he finds better?!) You're worth the effort, you're worth him treating you nice. Kick him to the curb honey, I know he's your friend but as it stands he has no reason to want to be your boyfriend as he gets sex and friendship without the commitment. Go get yourself a nice boy who treats you nice and you'll soon forget about him when you realise that there's better out there. On this occasion, the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
x

 

If I know I love someone, I would run to her apartment, destroy her door, toss her on the bed, and ... right away, I mean not 4 months later. Did I make my point?

 

understand that people come and go, and not everyone is right for you. it's obvious he doesn't love you... cheating is a no no, and lying is ignorant. i wouldn't wait around for this guy. you have four months until summer, why wait when you can get somebody else?

you may love him, maybe it's lust. you should never get that confused. honesty with yourself and trusting your gut is the best way to go.

good luck

 

you should ask us all for advice, then go crawling back to him only to be cheated on and lied to again like you're going to anyway.

i'm glad you don't love me...

 

Dumb his sorry ass and get a man who knows how to treat a lady.