Feeling of inside me

Yeah well this a thead I have started because I want to uh see if you can help me with fellings.l

 

O.K. well the bigest like lost ??? felling I have been geting is this.............. oh man uh..............I don't know how to say it.........it's a mixed up feel of "love" I think hell if I know???? well it's like this there is this girl who has -- hold on I need to say I'm a person who can fell more close with a person if there this lots in comman -- so any why oh yeah uh well she has some thing that are like me and others that are not as much and now that I'm thinking it seems I don't like want to date or any thing just more of know each ohter more not tons but just like Names and like say....32% of each other like just the basic's of eacth other I don't help me out ?????????

 

It's called attraction. Just try to get to know her a little and find out some of her likes/dislikes and then spend some precious time together.

 

Yes. and never lie, no matter how small.

 

Number 1 I understand "attraction" it's just a odd felling I have been attraction to someone before.

Number 2 I don't Lie anyway

 

so you are now offended? I was offering advice.

 

You don't lie? I don't believe you.


When you are with this person, just be all there in the moment.
Stay in the present moment.
Truly listen to her, and don't offer any unsolicited advice, just support, praise, and encouragement. Stay positive, don't tell her what she should or should not do if she tells you a decision she is unsure of. Let her make it, just be there for her 100%. Dont be thinking about the next hour, or date, or the last sentence she said, just stay completely in the here and now. and if you get nervous, excuse yourself and go to the can and do some deep breathing, slowly. Dont put pressure on yourself, just chill, and enjoy her company. Try to forget that you are even there, there is only her.
Works every time.

 

good advice, i hope to learn it someday.

I have probably lied to my partner a hundred times. but still, it is a good goal.

 

PS, lightening up on the ganj is a thought too..........

 

wow.......you done this before!!!!

 

pxp

 

I do take the moents like crazy I try to get as many as possable. She never has or we have never really talked but this one time she ask what where we doing in the class because she came to school late and that is the only time. we ever talked

 

it's starting to pass little bit but it's just a section of shit in the life I have blow $3's on.

 

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she looks like and i mean like it's not her it looks a good bit like her but is not.

 

IT has passed For KnOw?....

 

it's came back over time and lately it's realy big like one night I had a dream about her and two nights I thoght about her for like the whole night and she lives like .7 Miles from me I have no Idea what to do also I have never talked to and well it's just that I'm not sure if I do "love" her because so things I see her do I love that's like 20% of the time then other times she does things that I don't 100 % go with but it's there and that's like 50 % then the 30% is just shit I don't like that she does. HELP ME

 

The best piece of advice i can give you is not to stress over it, and dont let these feelings drive you crazy. I went through something a bit similar with one of my good she-friends a while back... i really cared for her a lot and wanted nothing more than to be with her. We were really close for a long time, but nothing ever happened. I waited and waited and wanted to say something to her but always backed down. One night, i just broke down all my defensiveness and told her i thought she was beautiful. We had something for a while, but i believe i waited too long and did too little too late. The moral of the story is, if you like this girl, or think you like her or whatever, just get to know her best you can, talk to her and really get to know her, then when you feel like the time is right, say something. Just say something.

One of the worst feelings you can have is regretting not stepping up to the plate. Just talk. If things dont work out in the end, dont dwell on it, you're only 13 correct? Trust me, things happen, you still have a future. Just try to make them go one way or the other, because being stuck in the middle of your feelings hurts much worse than rejection, and the chance of love is a world all its own.

 

i havent understood a word this kid has sed through this whole thread lol sorry

 

Thanks you for that word and it made me think of a thing I do and that is whenever I'm realy want to say something but don't well the thing I notice happen is that if I think about over and over for a long time like maybe 60-80-120 Min. then I get the balls to do it and I only see her for maybe 13 Min. per week day so I never get the balls

 

Also I want to point out that she seems like the "one" sometimes then other times she is not and it just fucks with my head.