just fyi...my nurse friend tells me that Doctors are seeing more and more cases of anal prolapse and women coming in at younger ages that can't hold their bowels due to the constant anal pounding...She says that some even leak while at their office desks...kind of like a woman's menstrual leak except from the butt...
My wife is a nurse, and she hasn't seen any increase in her hospital. Not to mention we have been having anal for almost 9 years and my wife has ZERO problems with her butt. If any woman has damage from anal it's because something was forced in their, and caused damage to the tissues, this would obviously be painful, that's a sign that says YOU ARE DOING IT WRONG! If it hurts, you messed up plain and simple, and if it hurts you are causing damage.
it's risky business...those that engage in it should be prepared..when they can no longer pucker up there will likely be many embarassing moments...glad I'm pitching and not catching...
I have been recieving strap-on sex for several years now and I think I actually have more anal control than I did before getting into anal sex because I am more aware of how to relax/tighten it now.
Just compare the size of some stools with the average sized penis & you will see that, with sufficient lubrication, the anus shouldn't have any real problems accommodating them.
This is all complete non-sense. It's a myth that anal causes incontinence. My uncle Meade is in his 60's and he's gay and he is not incontinent, and he's been taking it in his ass since his 20's. The anus is a muscle, and muscles easily stretch and return to their original size. If there is incontinence it's because there is damage to the muscles of the anus, ask your doctor. My wife is a registered nurse and that's what she said. Think about someone who can do the splits, are thing to just not be able to walk someday because they stretched their muscles of their legs? Absolutely not! A good healthy stretch with plenty of warm up will not damage the body. But if you use the same scenario. What if you never did the splits, and then all of a sudden someone rammed your legs apart into a full spit. It would be painful and cause plenty of muscle, ligament, and tendon damage which could be a life long ailment. The moral of this story is, don't go ramming away, you have to gradually relax and stretch the muscles of the anus to have safe anal. I have almost a decade of anal with the same woman, and still, it's drum tight, use your common sense.
Yep. My wife has even joked that a good shit is like reverse-anal. Ive been banging her asshole for years. No issues. Whatsoever.
I have been doing it for 6 years with no issues and I don't plan on stopping any time soon. This member has only 7 postings, I wouldn't put much creditability in his post here!
Its not something anyone is ever going to be able to research anyway Question a bunch of 60 something male and females with bottom problems, ask them how many times and for how long they've been getting rammed in the back door and you aint going to be able to trust all answers, you can work it out with other mathematical methods, but with that you wouldnt be able to seperate the effects of diet and or genetics against sexual behaviour. 2nd point: Its not like its a gay thing either, with the males, if gay is 2-5%, all you would need is 10% of the straight male population to take it regularly from the wife with a strapon or something else, and they'd outnumber us 2 to 1. The difference of course being when walking down the street its hard to identify hubbys that get it via a rubber johnson from the Mrs
My wife and I have had frequent anal sex for the last 18 years, including being anal exclusive for the past three and a half. I am at the top end of average size and length, and she has never experienced a problem as a result. Considering we've probably averaged anal sex three times a week for 15 years or so, and three to five times a week for the past three and a half years, I think I can speak from experience that this is not the case.
Nurse friend eh? Stimulus Package clearly has the leaky butt! C'mon, what sort of things you been poppin' up there?
6 years do it with my wife and there is no problem i think this girls put some thing bigger than the normal size in there ass hole "cola cans" maybe
I agree with sexxy. If you go shoving something larger than normal in your ass, then yes, it can do damage. My rule of thumb is not to put objects bigger than your poo in your anus. Use some common sense. I know fisting and all kinds of extreme anal play can be fun for some people, but putting a fist sized object in your anus I think over time will be unhealthy.
this just proves, that urban legends never die. i remember this one from almost 30 years ago, when i first started working in an emergency room. yes, this 100% prime grade a bullshit. of course you all know, it is really true, that all gay men shove live gerbils into their assholes and, as the gerbils are dying of suffocation, the men get off from the gerbils bitting and scrating inside their rectums. yeah, that one is 100% bullshit too. ok troll, you struck out with this thread. no one took your bait. people, i am proud of you all on this one! :cheers2:
Hold it right there the doing the splits is very damaging to the ligaments in your legs. When you do the splits you are stretching those ligaments and the further they stretch the more harmful it will be. Ligaments are not ment to be stretched like that. I think anal is fine as long as both people are consenting and the guy isn't just ramming his dick up there. The person receiving will need tons of lube and for it to be applied throughout the session. Once that baby gets dry you'll be screaming like a mother!