Where're all the chicks?

"id like to be bi"
i mean, i like girls too, but i dont know how to approach girls... ?

how does a girl apprach a girl?

 

Same way a girl approaches a guy. The only difference is you have to know if she is at least curious! Once you think she may be interested, get her number, talk to her a lot, be friends, and then see where it goes.

Or if you choose to take the more forward approach, after you find out if she is interested, just kiss her! It usually breaks the tension and you've already made it to first base!

 

ok, let me rephrase the question
how will you know if she is interested?
i mean, how do you know she is interested in you, not in a friendship...?

 

Well, how do you know guys are interested in you? You spend some time getting to know them and if you pick up on the signs (which generally are the same for male or female), touching you a lot, long hugs, and just by listening to see what they say.

If you pick up on these signs, then just ask and see if she is interested. I mean, if you have developed some form of friendship, the worst she can say is "no".

But, the signs are the same. It may seem a bit more difficult since there are less women openly bi then straight men, but once you find the person you will know. Obviously you haven't found that person just yet.

 

around

 

Just be a huge flirt, it's a good way to see if they're interested.

Used to work for me at least

 

why does it always come back to the guys... as though a girl's sexuality is all about them. it should be about you.

 

i dont like labels even though i like both sexes i dont call myself bi....im just me

 

No, it's just one way to find out who is into various things. Nothing more.

 

I feel the exact same way. But I have a boyfriend I love right now

 

Wow, I took a break from the internet and HF for a while. I totally forgot about this thread. Its crazy to see something you made get so large. lol

I guess, technically, I'm more like Pansexual. It isn't about go gender to me, its about whether I find a specific person attractive (mind and body). Its just easier to use the term "bi" because that's more widely known.

 

Im here

 

A lot of us are here, but real conversations never seem to develop.

 

Yeah, I noticed that. It is a shame that the forums as so dead.

 

Aw its a total shame, I just joined and its great so far, just wondering why there's a lack of activity here! o_o;

 

That's a really good question.
I don't know but it sucks.

Feel free to message me if you wanna chat though I'm always looking for people to converse with. keeps my day interesting

 

I am bisexual.

 

Sure! If you have MSN Messenger, my email is ccsakurai19@hotmail.com so definitely add me! ^_^
And your comment a couple posts back about being "pansexual" actually is a really good description of where I stand on things too! Somebody needs to make that word official if it isn't already, lol

Well I'll try to see if I can suggest the messageboards here to some of my more open-minded friends and I guess all we can do is hope for the best because the forums here are really awesome. =]

 

Definitely, you can meet a lot of really cool and open-minded people here I love it!

I haven't been on msn as much lately, but I'll definitely add you when I get on