Love hate Dynamics: Some hate me so quickly some are always so kind

People have these odd dichotomy about my story. The hate/care divide as I have seen it. (note I sound like I'm studying people it is not because I am without emotions it is just the only way I can talk)

I see this on the forums and in real life. Let's name some people:

Gaberial- Thinks I'm disgusting
Lila- His girlfriend at one point cares greatly for me, she scared for me, not of me is the real difference

Saber- hates me tried to attack me hates me, tries to threaten me and tells me to live Alexandra alone
Alexandra- might have liked me so that could skew her opinion, but she "doesn't care what gaberial or anyone else says about you (me) I still want to be friends"

Let me not make this so personal and say things that are controversial

Maybe I missing the picture I could name more people in my life, but I guess some people emphasizes with the acts an others don't?

Xac I found is a rare exception he seems to reasonable middle. A real life counterpart is my roommate who ignores the questionable aspects.

isolation makes me seem correct so please add input as you see it is needed

P.S. i think I like the forums too much it is just so nice to have candid, safe discussions

 

That's because i can stoically intellectualise moral arguments and communicate them in a manner best suited to the goal of argument (to convince someone of something, in this case, convincing you to change your behaviour).

That should not be mistaken for a tolerance of your behaviour.

 

duly noted; I was going to do a thread about manipulation but I'm glad others have good understanding of the principles.

 

I don't feel bad about it.

 

unnecessary, actions show motive. we can say whatever we like but what we do is truth.