I wonder if there is a scale or an index of masculinity/maleness of bi men compared to gay men... Anyone out there knowing of a survey on this...? Or is it your personal experience that the gay men you met so far are less masculine than the bi guys? I have met gay and bi men of all shapes and colors, so to speak, and most of the bi men I met have a very strong female side in them, and just as loveable as the hunky male sort... I recall that very male young punk guy I was with for a while... yum. And there was that very spiritual and tender hippie guy, too... ahhh, those two guys are still in my heart - and part of some steamy fantasies, too. Wiggling a male lover's toes, ~*Ganesha*~
Well the out gay guys are "girly" at my school though. But there is this boy at school who I think likes me.... But I dont kno.
"I dont do everything" Ughhh, want to punch em in the face when I hear that. Hate that Maybe cos its degrading, maybe its power inbalance thing. That and there always seems to be even just that slightest slip with hygiene with bi guys, I sound snooty saying that
Nah, tis not snooty. It's a fair enough point actually, I think bisexual men don't keep themselves quite as tidy as they should. I could go on with reasons, but it would just sound crass
