I could say they can be just too confusing at times. I'm sure it's my simple male brain that makes up all the contradictions though...
When they put forum moderators in between the two of you, while you actually know this girl in real life. When they wont speak to you, or explain why they refuse to speak with you. When even though you have so much love to give, they are willing to stomp on it right in front of you and tell you they don't love you anymore, when it was there not so long ago. When they wont answer your phone calls, text messages, Instant messages or even hesitate to sleep, when you are in need of them more than ever. When they get to you beyond belief. Some girls
two men are walking down the street. one man turns to the other man and asks, "do women shit?" the second man says, "of course women shit; women are full of shit." :smilielol5: that is 100% all too true! :sad: in my experence, just as many men as women are full of shit. neither gender, has the monopoly at being full of shit. :sifone:
That makes me feel bad because they're mostly victims of themselves rather than being outright mean And who can blame them really, there are so many that play games that it seems only natural that they would be in disbelief.
Of all the memes in the world, this is one of the saddest as it can really ruin otherwise decent human beings. There are very few people in the world who actually find being NICE a turn off, it's just not (to most) a turn on either (although it is generally endearing). What they find a turn off (or at least not a turn on) is a lack of excitement. The emotional rollercoaster induced by abuse or the shame/acceptance cycle induced by artful intelligent teasing is exciting to some. But most often, the "bad boys" who get the girl didn't do it because they were a bad boy, or at least not as a direct consequence, they got the girl because they were bold, daring, aroused a bit of nervousness and excitement, showed the confidence which most find attractive and courage to disobey the rules and do their own thing. It's like Alexdrana Burke and her song, "I said the bad boys are always spinning my mind. Even though I know they're no good for me. It's the risk I take for the chemistry." Picture the situation. A nerdy social outcast who is obsessed with the Third Reich and Hitler, has no friends and spends his time torturing small animals is obviously a very bad boy. Think if he went and found Ms Burke, said, "for Hitler!" then shot her in the kneecap and ran off she would be getting all wet for him? Of course not, but this is obviously not good or nice, he would have been a very bad boy. But what can you do? Mundus vult decipi, ergo decipiatur.
i hate it when chicks turn into drug nags--even though they knew i was a druggie when we got together--in other words they keep trying to change me and it isnt going to happen--------next