There's this woman that I have a huge crush on. We see each other a lot, and I sort of had the feeling that she may have been interested in me too. We were walking to lunch a few days ago, and I tripped and fell, my glasses spilling off. To my extreme misfortune, they spilled into an open sewer. I have glasses of a -18 prescription and am legally blind without them. I was feeling around for them helplessly in a panic. She had to guide me back to my apartment, and I had to hold her hand. However, it seems that she's been a lot colder to me after this incident. Do you think that her seeing me in my blind state affected something, or is it all in my head?
who knows maybe you are acting more self-conscious and closed off because you think you already ruined your image. Either way, it's funny, you should just play it off as hilarious
Yeah, I see no reason why that should make any difference to her. If it does, she must be a crazy bitch.
Not worth it if she cares about something so silly. I would find it hilarious, in a good way I mean. But then, i'm a guy and you don't want to doink me Sure you are imaging it though, just speak to her. I mean, you have totally broken the ice now haven't you!?
when i was in high school i accidentally spray painted my face in front of the girl i was currently interested in. nothing ever happened with her, but i don't think it was because of that incident.
I think thats kind of cute. Maybe it is all in your head. Or maybe she just doesnt know how to act after or something completely stupid. Go up to her and tell her you want to thank her and let her know how much you appreciate it. See what she says.
If people are sharing embarrassing stories like this, let me share mine. Me sitting with legs open, leaned back + a hole in my work trousers = My ball managing to hang out whilst I was drinking a cup of coffee with about 4 girls. One of which I did like, and yes she did notice. Damn. Shit happens. God knows what happened to her, probably scarred her for life- and she is probably hiding under a rock on lesbos island as we speak.
I agree with lakeoffire. I think the whole situation was cute in a way. Something to talk about later and perhaps joke about if you become friends or more. SO.... Are you sure you just are not perceiving that she is acting strange or cold because you are so worried or whatever it is you are feeling? Sometimes I project stuff off of people when I am the one acting different because I am worried about how the other person is feeling. Pretend nothing happened and go talk to her. If she brings it up then work from there depending on HOW she brings it up...if she does.
