I guess you're right about that. I mean, I don't know her, but she sounds more confused than anything. I don't think she's doing it on purpose. As soulless as people make me out to be, I would never do that on purpose. I've had my feelings played with before and I'd never wish it on anyone. It'll happen if it's meant to happen, but the ball kinda is in her court right now so I wouldn't pursue it. If she comes back and you are still interested/single then go for it. But I think her emotions are just too raw right now.
I've been through this same thing. There is only 1 thing you can do. Pretend you don't give a shit. It's one of those things the harder you chase it the further away it gets. You know why women are attracted to assholes? I don't, but I know damn well why they're assholes. Women.
Women suck man. Least you can move on. Its those people that can't move on who really have things bad.
Alright well she had off yesterday and was back today. Our work environment is weird. Basically it's a warehouse and the first couple of hours I am offloading trucks while she scans documents. It's strange because we can see each other from a distance. Usually we wave to each other or just give eye contact. Today I decided to completely ignore her during this part of the shift. No wave, no eye contact. Nothing. The last hour of the shift I go to do what she does. She asked how my easter was and I replied with "good, how was yours?" and that was it. I stayed very distant all night. I always leave my phone up front during the shift and I come out and see she texted me during the shift just about something random my boss said. Then I get a text from her after the shift, seeing how the rest of my shift went. I haven't replied yet. It does seem that because I stayed so distant today was what caused these texts (she hasn't sent me a text in a week). I'm just trying to figure out if it's because she likes the attention or is still into me at this point. What would you do? Should I reply? A woman's perspective would be nice...
a woman would lie about it, that's the last thing you need. honestly, i'm pretty awful at this myself, so i wouldn't take my advice either. but at this point i would just reply to direct questions and not go out of my way to communicate with her at all.
You can trick a girl into fucking you, but if you want love I have no clue what to tell you. I haven't figured out that yet myself.
Don't be cold at work, that comes off immature and sketchy. Just do your own thing, focus on your work. The best way to get over a girl is to get on another one.
