ever heard of this...so like 4 months ago my girl friend claims this guy had sat near her and talked a little to him and he seemed nice and normal so she her female friend and him went to a bar and all sat down at a booth then as he started to get drunk he became very disgusting and she says he started to insistintly hit on her and eveuntly put his arm around her and reached for her breasts and she than says soon after she steped on his lap and then poured her drink on him then left and she says he started texting her like every day and as the months went on they became extreamly vulgure and creepy Ex: I promisei will leave you alone if you spend one night with me nice and nasty no strings attached i cant get you body taht night out of my head" this story seems very implausible i mean guys just dont do that..(on top of the fact that i caught her in many many lies which she says she told to not get me angry because she admits it's sketch but she says she's 100% faithful to me).what do you laides think did she likely hook up w him (make out 2 sex) or had a fling or shes telling the truth (about this part of the story)
There are definitely fucking creepers like that out there. I experienced one myself.. we hung out once (when I was single) and I made it crystal clear that night that I definitely wasn't interested. He was just hanging on me begging for a kiss and wouldn't stop blabbering over me. We didn't even drink. He would randomly show up at my work and I couldn't get away.. he only stopped popping up after I transferred to a different store (not for that reason though)... Still kept calling/texting months later even after my dude answered the phone and bitched him out. Depends on the nature of the lies, but she sounds legit to me.
In my experience, things like that DO happen. That doesn't mean she is telling the truth, obviously I don't know her or anything really about her so I can't tell you that. But that is a story that could definitely be true. I've had something similar happen, although not quite as bad. Stalkers are definitely out there.
It happens & in the most unlikely situations. I had a *stalker* once. It freaked me out after I figured it out. I had been tree planting in N.Colo. at the time & attended a party in a town about 60 miles away, long story short. Some of us had stayed the night as we were all from out of town & there was this fella there that i never had met before, who was quiet and sorta twitchy. I attributed his twitches to Turette's syndrome and just ignored them. But it turned out he had followed the band (from our hometown) back and was living in that town (I lived in the boonies @ that time) and he went w/a friend to visit her family farm (near where I lived) and he kept asking about me & where lived. I was like yeah, whatever... Until a few nights later I noticed a body print on the out side of my floor to ceiling window (passive-solar window) FREAKED ME OUT! I later found out the guy was on medications and had been arrested for attacking a woman in town. I don't know... I had never had more than a five minute conversation w/the dude. I mean I've always had manners & was polite ( I was raised Hippy & that meaning you are open minded about *different* folks ) I was in no way sexual, nor was I putting out any sexual vibes. Infact, I was there just to party, as I was fanning a flame via letters & had no interest in other fellas. Also, the dude was no way near my type (nothing to do with the twitches) he just wasn't *all that* to me, in fact I had forgotten about him until the friend mentioned him in a convo. over the phone & I was like: huh? who? o...
Why would you be with a woman who has lied to you many many times? Why should you believe anything that comes out of her mouth? If you need internet help to tell when she is lying, then she's not worth your time.
Look, it happens all the time On the news a few months ago around me. Some doctor fancied a patient so got her numbers from records and sent her explicit messages about wanting to have sex with her and what not. This lasted months until she told the authorities. The world takes all sorts, some good, some bad. This guy just sounds like a pest to me. Finally, I would believe what she says. I mean, it sounds like she has little reason to lie. Hope it turns out OK.
ugh. stalker. quit giving your numbers out, ladies. jeez. or do like i did and get fat and people leave you alone.
If it sounds fishy to you since your know your friend more maybe she is lying,maybe she's not. If she's a type to fall for creepy guys like that then you probably know the answer.
