Deleted her from my phone, don't invite her out drinking with my friends, even though she sort of relies on me because she's new in town. I think she's the most physically beautiful girl I've ever met, but I refuse to do anything about it. So I do my best to avoid her, even though were friends, supposedly. I saw a guy get her number at the bar last night and it spun me into an angry drunken asshole stupor. I was gong to put this into the confessions forum, because that's what it is. I'm being a jerk by isolating this girl, just to avoid being hurt. But I can't help it.
You want to avoid being hurt, so you hurt someone else, is this really fair? maybe you have been hurt in the past, but not every girl will be the same. If you act this way you will be alone forever. If you really like her the last thing you need to do is push her away, because when she is gone you may regret it, and that will hurt worse.
Yeah, I sort of think it's a bit stupid. You live with the girl, obviously haven't known her long Don't put yourself in the friend-zone. You have a great opportunity right now to show her what good company you could be. Girls do dig personality, the stereotype is true. If you just so happen to look like Johnny Depp as well then congratulations. All in all, MAN UP!!!!
Yeah, man. Fuck, if only I was so lucky. You probably have some kind of cosmic obligation to run with this, in the name of everyone out there who isn't in such a hands-down awesome situation.
Hah! Cosmic obligation? I do like that Sounds like if he doesn't do it, the world will end. Hop to it then boy, for the sake of mankind
Sounds like you've got some fish in a barrel. Pull the trigger. If I was her I'd be like WTF is his problem, once I realized you were avoiding me, if we were supposedly friends. Then it'd probably give me a complex and make me think I did something wrong to you Friggin' talk to her. Worst she can say is she's not into you that way, and if that hurts too much and things get weird then move out. Will probably be way less painful than what you're putting yourself through now... stop torturing yourself, mang.. I think you know the right thing to do. g/l
I don't think we'd go well together. I'm not going to "man up" "or pull the trigger". My conflict is to whether to stay her friend and watch her hook up with guys and me get hurt, or ignore her.
This thread is really weird. So you don't want to date her (even though you are "infatuated with her") because you think you "won't go well together". OK, so then don't pursue her, but don't act like an asshole when she meets other guys lol. I mean, what, you want yourself to be alone and her to be alone too?
Take it from me...don't date someone you live with! Let me repeat this, to get my point across...DO NOT DATE SOMEONE YOU LIVE WITH! If it doesn't work out, things will be awkward and weird and even worse than it is now! I lived with a group of five guys in college...I ended up dating one of them. Not only did the entire house end up in chaos over it, but when we broke up, it was awkward to continue living in the same house together, watching him have girls over, etc. DO NOT DATE SOMEONE YOU LIVE WITH! And just in case you missed it, what I'm saying is: "DON'T DATE HER!" Mmmmkay?
