Can you guys please give me some advice on learning how to get used to anal penetration? It seems like my ass is always as tight as on my first time, and that was quite a long time ago! I've tried several water-based lubricants (and use plenty of it), Kegel exercises (btw, does any of you found them useful?), foreplay, starting with one finger and then working my way up, and all that shit. Nothing seems to really work. When I take the vibrator out, a few seconds later I already have a hard time sticking it back in. It's as if my ass were dickproof and never widened! :frown: DAMN! I knew I was abnormally tight, but how tight can one be?! Any tips?
I always find the Missionary Position easiest. The traditional 'Doggy Style' seem practically impossible - especially with plenty of lube, which can cause the penis to slip & slide everywhere - except where it's meant to go, that is. Once you have achieved initial penetration, your natural instinctive reaction is to pull back, thus tightening the rectal muscles - try to overcome this by pushing, as if you were having a bowel movement.
I bend over doggy or lay spoon and start masturbating with a vibrator on my clit until my man comes and teases the entrance to my ass with his cock, and I start cuming just thinking about it. Then all my muscles relax and he can penetrate easier. But it sounds like you are anal masturbating? It took a long time to train those muscles to relax.
WOW! The missionary is completely impossible for me. On missionary I get tighter than on any other position!!! The position I handle the better is standing up and sticking my butt out, and even that one is still hard. I'm a guy, so the vibrator is hardly ever going to touch my clit. I've been doing anal masturbation - with fingers and vibrator - trying to learn how to control the internal sphincter, which is extraordinarily tight. My goal is to be able to have anal intercourse with no pain at all (without using numbing lubricants). It still hurts too much. PV, you said it took you a long time to train those muscles to relax. That means you were in the same situation as I am now, right? That means there is still hope, RIGHT??? :groupwave:
Use a butt plug. Put it in and leave it in for a hour before fucking. Tighten up on it like you were doing kegals. this will loosen it up a bit. When your ready pull it out and insert dick and enjoy
Yeah, I suspected that clenching the anus up while having a vibrator/dick inside it actually helped loosing it up a bit and getting accustumed to the feeling, despite the fact that it hurts doing it, but I wasn't sure.
