the pull out method safer than condoms???

Sweetleaf63, listen to me. USE A CONDOM ! Jeezus, did you have any sex education in school or do you live in Texas ?

 

the pull out method DOES NOT work.. good god where to people learn these things? lol and we wonder why so many girls get pregnant when they shouldn't.. please for your own sake use a condom.. not trying to be a bitch but where were you during health class? lol

 

yea your right..
I guess I got so use to not using anything that now i think
its safe..thanks

 

I just don't want to see you ending up with unwanted babies.. lol

 

lol.I understand

 

what the hell is a prick hat?

i'm never having sex again unless the girl is on the pill AND i'm using a condom...

 

The pull out method does indeed work. It may not work 100% of the time, just like any other method of birth control. But it does work, and to claim that it doesn't is seemingly (at surface level) a responsible statement on your part, in your efforts to keep this young girl from getting pregnant. But to be truthful with her, you should just acknowledge that it is actually a form of birth control (that should be used in conjunction with other forms of birth control, not alone, to decrease chances of pregnancy) that is an option to be used during sexual intercourse.

Again, this method should be used with something such as a spermicide and/or a birth control pill or other form of hormonal birth control. If you don't prefer to use these types of birth controls which can be damaging in many ways (hair loss, mood swings, among other things), then try using condoms. If you don't want to do any of these things, I can recommend that you not have sex, but that would be stupid on my part.

Good luck, OP.

 

Thank you for the advice.I will definitely keep this in mind.

 

I think the solution is obvious, other than bowing down to the OP's God-like boyfriend..

Wear a condom, go on the pill, get the injection and then pull out and cum out of the window. Tried and tested, the most normal solution out there.

 

hehe God-like boyfriend, you must be jealous
thanks though.

 

i read this today in a booklet the hospital gives out to new mothers as a guide to help them with breastfeeding stuff and after birth sex and stuff like that. they actually mentioned that the pre mature retraction is 81-93 percent effective. they even go on to mention why pulling out is preferred my most women. when i women takes the pill, the hormones it releases can cause too much of a chemical change in the body in a negative way. condoms are expensive and can rip although not too often. also dams can be placed incorrectly in the womens vagina. any methods really other than not having sex all have some failure rate. nothing is 100 percent. but i just couldnt believe the book gave damn good excuses why pulling out is actually preferred and has actual failure and success rates, lol

 

wow interesting..

 

When I am close to, or having, my fertile time we use a condom and the pull-out method. Until we are ready for a family he won't come inside whether he has a condom on or not. He is extra paranoid like that...

But I have heard that the pull-out method is way more effective than a lot of sex-ed has let on.

 

Yes same here...

 

I definitely say, fuck taking birth control pills!

Seriously though, my life has improved greatly since I stopped taking them and just decided to use the above method instead.

 

Keep in mind that they have lots of harmful side-effects to the girl and also to the environment.

 

wait do you mean don't take birth control??

 

absolutely not. What you're doing is quite risky and irresponsible.

 

No... although people should understand not everyone can take birth control pills. I can't take them even if I wanted to, the doctor won't prescribe them because of migraines. I was just joking about the "fuck birth control pills" But people should understand that not every girl can just "take a pill" and they have to use other methods instead.

 

Yea this is true not all girls have the same body..
We all cant just take a pill and its all good.